Newbie Hello and Erection Sponginess?
Hello Fellow PE’rs,
Im a newbie, I’ve been PEing for 6 weeks, I’ve been lurking this forum for nearly all that time. You guys seem really nice, I was initially afraid to sign up, thinking that somehow my info was gonna get spread all over the internet, (I was paranoid). I truly believe that these exercises are working for me, and the night my wife looked at my penis after having sex, (where we both achieved orgasm together) and she saw that I was still large and semi-erect, she said “wow!”, that was the moment I was repaid for the money I shelled out for the Vigrx pills. I cant say that the pills are working, but that’s how I found this forum, and I can definitely say that this forum is worth the price of the pils. I started at 5.5” ebpl and I didnt measure girth, now I am 5.8” ebpl and 4.7” eg. Im 5’9” 210lbs so my unit looks small on me even when erect. I’ve been married more than 10 yrs, and we had been having difficulties in the bedroom for a while, (I wanted more, she didnt) since I started PE and we worked out some communication problems, we have been much more active and adventurous in bed.
I had some misguided ideas about what a large penis size would do for my wife’s enjoyment. Like so many other guys she had told me that I was the “perfect” size, and that a larger penis “might” hurt. She had also told me that she had only been with one guy who was “large” and that it was uncomfortable. Well, I know she was trying to spare my feelings and make me feel that my size was ok, but she didnt understand that the simple fact that I now know I’m not the biggest she’s had makes me more self concious. She really wasnt trying to be mean, she just didnt know she was making it worse.
Anyways, I dont mean to ramble, I just wanted to introduce myself and tell my story first before I started asking questions.
My first question is about erection sponginess. I PE 5 days a week ( in the mornings after the wife leaves for work and before the kids get up), and I skip the workouts on weekends. When the wife and I have sex during the week (at night) my erections feel like they are maybe 90%, and not rock hard like they used to get. Is this caused by the workout or maybe the pills? (vigrx 2 tabs in morning) I ‘ve had some really signifigant gains in girth, and a little in length. I also masturbate almost daily, which I have been doing my whole adult life. Should I skip the masturbation, I know Im not supposed to ejaculate immediately after PE, but is the masturbation causing fatigue?
Also can anyone explain what the affects of ejaculation are on the gains? I have read conflicting posts about this. One place said I shouldnt ejaculate until several hours later, and another place it told that some couples incorporate the PE into their foreplay.
Ok last question, I think I understand that I need to stretch the ligaments and tunica to gain length, but how does the PC muscle help with length gains? It seems that if I do a lot of Kegals, that I would be working against the efforts of the stretches. If my PC muscle gets stronger, then it will be harder to pull the ligs and tuncia right? Is my thinking right or not? Would that explain why some need to progress to hanging to further increase length?
Well Im happy to be here and I hope to post some progress reports as I go.
Thanks for everyone who posts here too, you really are providing a valuable service to many people.