Newbie - erratic performance - ED and/or PE
I’m not sure what’s wrong with me, but somethings not right.I’m hoping that you can help?
Here’s my story..
I’m 57 years old and I’ve definitely seen better days.
As a younger man my girl-friends and wife all used to compliment me that I was supremely well endowed and able to maintain an erection naturally perform to satisfy myself & partner. I think I only bothered to actually measure my member once and it was definitely over 7.5 inches. Several women used to say they really enjoyed how “big and wide” it was and how they could really “feel” me.
I’ve been disappointed and shocked to notice that over recent years that my both my flaccid and erect penis size has literally “shrunk”. I doubt I can get a 5-6 inch woody today my member looks like a little boy’s tool. I definitely don’t have the Eq. That I used to have!
Today, my erections are eratic very often unable to perform reliably “on demand”m even with a lot of manual and oral help from my G/F.
However I often wake up with an erection, and can sometimes “perform” quite well upon waking up.
I’ve tried Viagra, Levitra, and Cialis, and they all worked fine. Other than Cialis giving me headaches, the “pills” seem to be a viable temporary “work-around” so I’m hoping that whatever my issue is, it’s not permanent damage and is “fixable” with exercise, diet, etc..
My girlfriend is an RN and is quite willing and able to help me with the exercises, provided I can come up with an “exercise plan” that we can work on together. Do you have any suggestions for how girlfriends can “help”? And what they can do?
I’ve also investigated hypnosis and EFT for helping with the psychological and emotional issues? Does that help? Can anyone suggest any ED forums that are as good as this forum?
I definitely need help,