NEWB needs encouraging WORDS

I have tried to start up PE multiple times, but never manage to stick to it. My initial measurements are 6.75 BPEL * 5.75 EG (17.7 cubic inches Volume). From what I have read that is somewhat above average. My goal is to achieve 8.0 - 8.5 BPEL * 6.25 - 6.5 EG (28 cubic inches Volume) . My problem has been that I have never been able to stick it out with PE. I’ll get a couple of weeks into the Newbie Routine and then stop even though I have seen gains before that dissipate after I stop, I just feel like such a moron for committing my time to this instead of hanging out with my friends, learning to play the guitar, or just going out to looking for women.

However, I really do want to stick it out achieve a larger penis. For some reason I’ve had a streak of women which a fairly accommodatingly and generally just make me feel like a hot dog in a hallway lol, funny but true. Anyway I have had sex with a good amount of women and know that if I was a bit larger it would not hurt the situation, I would also like to increase my stamina and I hear PE is good for that. Besides all of this could be my back up occupation as a porn star lol.

Just the truth of it is I want some people to tell me how they manage to stick it out at first? The time commitment, the lightly sore hands and penis, and just in general handling the idea that you are waisting 45 minutes a day trying to enlarge your shlong lol.

Just think of it like this. All the hard work and dedication you gave to PE will pay off when you are in bed having sex and the woman starts groaning and moaning in pleasure with your new bigger dick. I guess you are pretty comfortable with your penis and I would be too :)

Agreed

I’m a newbie too so I can’t really talk from any more than 2 weeks experience.. But it seems like you view PE very much as a chore. It’s not really a chore if you do what I do. I just add it to other daily routines things, and I barely even think about it. For example, I jelq before I’m about to have a shower.. And I stretch in the shower.. And sometimes when I’m sitting at the computer, I do a fowfer for 15 mins. It’s not that hard at all. The only hard part for me is remembering to do it. While I’m jelqing I don’t have a mindset of “why am I wasting my time doing this”.. I barely even think at all.. I just kinda stare down and focus on technique and look at the shape of my penis while I’m waiting and shit like that. You just have to have a lot of patience for this I guess.

Also, I dream of having your size. Haha. Isn’t that amazing? I guess there are a lot of males out there that aren’t happy with their size, no matter HOW big or small they are.

You know, I found P.E. Some 4-6 years ago and started to use a program I found on the net, because I just wasn’t happy with my size. To be honest I have never been with a virgin! I’m 47 now. So, all the women I have ever been with have something to compare me to. I probably started, stopped 5-6 times then decided to give it 60 days, like the program said. Wow, 3-5 times a week steady for several months. I probably gained 1.25 in. Length and .5 in girth. Then, I heard stuff like, mm mm nice. I lasted longer, it helps with the oh, my gods! Since then, I have gotten on, and off, just the same as when I first started. So I am pleased that this site exists! The only advice I can give is just make it a priority and stick with it until you see results, then you will not give up so soon. I’m back because I think it, my duty to please the woman I am with! Thanks for the site Thunder! So “bodadeous”, is it a must, or just a want? Make it a must! You’ll be fine!

Knowing that your goals are very achievable, if you feel that your time and effort is being wasted, it’s time to quit. Just like anything else that involves time and effort.. if you feel that your time and effort is being wasted, it’s time to stop.

Aside from that, there isn’t much to say. There is no one on these boards that can tell you how to drive yourself to accomplish long-term goals. I’m sure you’ve done some things in your life that required a copious amount of time and effort input. Did you work towards accomplishing these tasks using a specific method of self-motivation? Did you want these other things more than you want a big dong?

Personally, dedicating 45 minutes to PE 5days/week seems like nothing. I mean, think about the amount of time you spend daily watching tv/playing video games/jacking off/etc. Tell me that you’d be willing to ditch 4 hours of tv and video games per week to have a bigger penis and we’re on the same page. Otherwise your mind is a mystery to me.

Get rid of that mindset. As long as you see it as a waste of time you will keep giving up on PE.

Ha!,If there is anything worth “wasting” 45 minuets a day on that is it. :)

Seeing you guys go about complaining about 6.75 BPEL being too short and wanna get your lil bro to 8.0 - 8.5 BPEL, make me envy you all. Cause at least you guys have something to work properly with. Being an Asian (ave size is about 5-6 BPEL) guys me, it embarrass for me to mention it but you can said I have below ave Asian size. And finding this site is kinda like Holy Grail to me you know.

The bottom of my heart, thanks Thunder’s Place and friend for making this site for someone like me. :)

I totally agree with all the other members! It’s very stupid to think it’s a thing you must do. You don’t have to do it, that’s right it isn’t important and you will not die if you don’t do it. But theirs a big BUT if you do it it’s gonna bay you one day and you ll be more than happy that you did it! I love PE and I’m doing it for my self, for some lucky little lady’s and for all the things where ill need my dick :D

For me PE is some kind of a thing that I love to do, hell I’m some times sad that I can’t do it more that my routine says.

I suppose that depends on what you read.

There is plenty of myth making out there.

Your length is definitely higher than average and your girth is considerably above average; in fact it is actually large. So overall you have a big dick.

Is it the biggest? Is it a show stopper? Is it “Wait, I have to call someone and tell them about this!” big? No. But there are guys doing porn who aren’t as big as you.

So… just so you know: a volume of 17 cubic inches is big tool. You may not win an award for it, but you might find that you prefer Magnum sized condoms; with your girth you will find they have less chance of breaking. When you hit 6” to 6.25” girth you can graduate to XL Magnums. A half inch gain shouldn’t be too hard to achieve over time.

As far as keeping focused. Just make it something you do. I agree that the mindset you have shared with us makes it seem as though it’s a chore. What can I say? I don’t think of it that way. I think of it as my own little private hobby.

Welcome to Thunder's.

Hi bodadeous:

If you really WANT it, you WILL do it!

However, if you continue to stay in that same mindset, that of it being a chore, you will never stick with it. YOU have to decide what is really important, since no one else can do that for you.

Good Luck.

Now I’m the King I can order you to do, but then it becomes a boring tedious job.

You already have great starting stats.

Incentive, helps you to avoid erectile dysfuncion in later life.

I just played around with cubic inch volume calculation and it’s amazing how much girth influences your outcome.

From your stats, you don’t need PE. If you want it, then you have to be consistent. I know the newbie routine is recommended, but I can’t do it either. Tried it and was very unsuccessful. I simply cannot jelq.

What worked for me, and worked quite well I might add (I’m not yet as big as your starting size though) was simple pumping. Tried the jelqing, hanging, and other stuff too but just wasn’t successful.

Now I just pump at low to moderate vacuum for 20 minutes, then do two clamping sets for 10 minutes each. I try to do this between 1 and 3 times a day for 3 days and then take one off. It is working.

So if you can’t stick with it, find something different to do.