Buster said it well, we penis pullers are a close bunch - from the responses you’re getting I hope you can sense that. You mentioned you’d be putting together a weight loss oprogram for yourself this weekend. Go to the Men’s Health website. They can actually put a program together for you. Maybe some guys on this site can help you out. I’m very fortunate in that I have great metabolism, eat like a linebacker @ 10:00 at nite, don’t do any exercise other than PE and have 34” waist, which is 2” more than when I was 20 (I’m 57 now).
Squirt, if you need someone to fall back on to help you thru this, you’re at the right place.