New comer and first post

Well this is my first post and I would like to just say hello :)

Now what brings me to this site is my recent insecurities about my penis and it’s size.

I have just over 5inch in length 13 and half cm to be accurate and 4 inch in girth and was wondering if this is considered small or not ?

I also have erectile dysfunction, I can get an erection but during sex I sometimes go semi rather then full erect.

I am very new to all these different techniques so if someone could point me in the right direction I would be most appreciated :)

Thank you

You are in the right place.

First off, I suggest you try and get more comfortable with your size and not worry about labeling it as big or small.

Exercises in the Newbie Routine are the best place to start.

A few weeks of this should show noticeable improvement in your erection levels.

Welcome and good luck! :)

I think being realistic about size is a good thing. Maybe that brought you here in first place. I would say that yes you are slightly smaller than “average” but remember that many many people have same and smaller than your size. I am what you would call “average”.

Read on ‘PC muscle’ and ‘Kegel exercise’ to easily and quickly improve erection quality.

You def found the right place to hopefully get a bigger than “average” penis!

Yes I don’t compare myself to porn stars but comparing myself to most of you guys makes me feel small.

So what is the average penis size then and what would I need to work on, length or girth ? I am only wanting to become average for now lol

And do these exercises actually work, will I see a big improvement ?

Sorry about all the questions and thanks again :)

Yes comparing myself to most of you guys makes me feel small

I advise you to listen to Cantlook, he has been here for awhile and tends to have some good advice. If the Newbie routine seems too intense, you should try the Linear Newbie Routine . I’ve had some great newbie gains from that routine

Bowzer, Welcome to the forum. I cosign what cantlook said. Focus on the newbie routine, and probably more importantly, try to stop comparing. You’re you and the best thing you can do is work on being comfortable in your own skin and becoming the best you can be. Read everything you can in the newbie forum and try not to listen to the negative guys who measure their success and prowess and self worth by the size of their cock. Good luck and again, welcome.

Also, consider entering your stats in the PE Data site. It’s found on the bottom of the page by the Donate button.

Welcome

Do you have ED when looking at porn?

Yeah it does work for sure; how do you think most guys in porn are so big??

For those who have not done PE before, my stats are what you would call the average penis size. 6inch length 5 half girth is average for a man. Much like a man’s average height of 5’10, for us in UK anyway.

Good luck.

bowzer,

really don’t worry about it. If you look through all the big gainers threads none of them gave a damn no matter what size they were. If you can, revert your thoughts to believing that your going to get yourself a nice big cock. Anxiety about your unit and anyone’s for that matter = literally counter productive. Chemicals released in anxiety directly effect things like ligaments, elastin, collagen, etc. Know, not fear, that you are the man.

You will soon see (if you haven’t already noticed) that this place can be as bad or worse than porn as far as nursing insecurities, however it can help you gain confidence and overcome them as well.

Use your common sense, take all advice with a grain of salt, and you’ll do great.

I’m not exactly sure what JelqVader is trying to accomplish or where he gets a 5.5 girth average from :confused: but I’m sure he’s trying to help.

BRRRR. Yes, I think he has a smaller than average penis. But all will be better soon. I just feel sorry for those out there with 4inch length and 3inch girth who would see ME as a monster. Bring on the hate

There is no need to keep telling him these things. Try positive reinforcement? Don’t worry about it. I was barely any bigger than you when I started, and my confidence is through the roof now. It all about getting to a point that you are happy with yourself. Make sure to do PE for you, not a girl or a boy or whatever you are into..

I hope words do not hurt; they are not meant to.

He states he is insecure about his penis size; but aren’t we all?

Weather his penis is big or small, (is it really bad for me to state - since he asked - I am of the opinion it is smaller than average?) we all want it bigger here, no?

~ Why Size Anxiety is Dumb Worth a Read

Hey bowser, I just sent you a PM. Definitely give that thread from UCRugger a read.

Lets remember this a welcome thread for a new brother!

We can debate size elsewhere. ;)