New Beginning!

Hi guys,
I have known and signed up for Thunders for a long time! However, I didn’t take it very seriously. I did manage to gain 1/4 inch in length in 3 months and little girth once upon a time~~.
My story,
I been with my gf for year and half, and she cheated on me recently. Now, I don’t want to get all tear up, but it sucks! Since beginning this year, she started taking anti-anxiety pills regularly..and all I can say that man I fall in love with a different person! Shame on me shame on me. She was such a different person than before when she’s on these pills and sex became less and less and less. We been fighting a lot over the fact that I always kick it with my boys rather than always hang with her. Anyways, now that she gave me a reason to break up with her, which I have been wanting to because she was too clingy. She really love me and everything, but now I just can’t look her in the eyes the same way before. She said she would be my fuck buddy just to see me, so next time I fuck that hoe I better remember to wear a condom!

Nowadays, I been hitting up the clubs a lot and have been getting really lucky for the first 2 times that I winged with my buddy.
Now i am motivated than ever to work my way to a bigger dick. Without a girlfriend, I will have a lot more free time to do PE, Guys I am ready for this marathon!

My routine: 5 min warmup, 5 minute stretch, 10 min dry/wet jelping (5 min dry and 5 min wet), 30 kegals

3 days on 1 day off. How’s that look guys?

Gracias

El Cholo

If she cheated because she needed more than you were giving her (in whatever department: companionship, friendship, love, attention, etc.), well that’s they way some women are especially if they are insecure (aren’t most? You used the word “clingy”). They will find a way to get what they need. So she may not have cheated primarily for sex but for something else she wasn’t getting from you. That doesn’t justify her cheating but might explain it. Her offering herself as your “fuck buddy” might validate that. She’s offering sex just so she can see you. She doesn’t want to be cut off from you completely. But that’s the natural consequence of her actions. If you do continue to have sex with her you should consider that the relationship probably should be nothing more than that unless you can get to the root of why she cheated.

Infidelity is a tough one. Be strong. PE if you like, but know that she didn’t cheat for size reasons. Also, don’t take your anger over her mistake out on another woman. I fear too many guys do that.

Well…she was really fucking clingy before because she was like depressed and I went through all the shit with her, thats why I am so fucking hurt from this because I went through the worst with her and supported her. She was like, ” you are the only person that makes me happy”. Now that she is on meds, she seems to forget all that and just whoring herself out. She also lies a lot now like yesterday, me and my boys are going out. She texted me like 6 pm saying she would shower and come help me clean my room. I was like okay but she never came and never responded to my text and I told her I will be gone by 10.30 to some party. Me and my boys left my room around 11pm and we saw her trying to get in to the dorm. All my boys were like, “dont talk to that hoe”. Well..she told me she’s here to “clean” up for me. Immediately I know its a fucking lie but I didn’t wanted to make a scene outside. Me and my boys just left. Anyways She told me I don’t appreciate her because I always hang out with my boys, but it is really not true considering how much fucking time I wasted on this one fucking girl—and thats what really pissed me off—she wasted so much of my time.

Now I really don’t want to see her or fuck her because first I don’t want to catch anything, and second I just want to make her really fucking sad and cry because I am her “best friend”.

Well any advice from the vets are appreciated! Thanks

el Cholo

I think you should write her off. I wouldn’t give her any more of your time or energy. Sounds like she’s in a really bad place. Got knows what her brain chemistry is like. Sounds like that medication is not doing her any good. You might help her by suggesting she get off it or switch to another one. But you really need to cut your losses with this one. Try not to be bitter, she’s not the one you’re supposed to end up with. That one is still out there, you’ll meet her soon enough.

Giggity,

Thanks for the advice. I know my life is still young, I just need a rebound really quickly. Like seriously, tonight my boys and I are hitting the club, and hopefully I get a joy ride by the end of the night. Of course, before I go, I am gonna have to do my noobie routine, duh!! Giggity, as a vet, do you think twice noobie routine per day 3 days on 1 day off is too much?

Thanks

E Cholo

Hey, I just started on here last December so I’m a noobie also. Hopefully a real forum veteran will answer your question.

Why twice per day? If you are in a hurry, slow down.