Nervous First Post

Hi everyone. I have never posted here before and am a little apprehensive - don’t really know why.

I have a few questions and things but really just wanted to check in with the more experienced people that I am on the right path.

I started PE in Feb 2006, as I have always been ashamed of my penis. There’s the truth. I have not ever had any complaints from my wife, as the erect state is OK ish (will post measurements later). Flaccid, I would never let anyone but my wife and my doctor see it (I think you call it a grower, as opposed to a shower) and would run a mile from male showers, though did skinny dip once when I was drunk at a party :-)

Anyway, I have always wanted a bigger one, hence the name Reggib 1 (Bigger One) and found out about jelqing by pure chance on TV. Found this site and started work. Jelquing only to start with but now stretch a little as well.

Size:- Well, I wish I had taken proper measurements in Feb when I started. Girth is about 5” at the base Flaccid, about 2.5” to 3”, Erect 5” non bone pressed (measured from top, not side) Bone pressed Erect 5.5” to 6” (again measured from the top) the difference in measurements is partly as I don’t recall exactly and the arbitrary nature of the way I was measuring.

I have had some gains, and again, wish I had documented them better as whilst I know there are gains it’s difficult to know how much exactly.

Gains:- If I am really hard I can squeeze just a tad under 7” bone pressed, measured from the side and just over 6.5” from the top. So it’s has got bigger, but I have lost my way a bit with all the measurements - due in part as the gains are so slowly gained it’s difficult to know if they are imagined or not.

Which brings me to another point. I can hardly believe that this is working. I measure, and it’s never the same, always bigger by small proportions but bigger nevertheless. I don’t know why I struggle to believe what’s happening but I do. I suppose it’s because it’s something I have always wanted I hardly dare believe it’s attainable. Does that make sense?

My wife is yet to notice any changes though :( I think that the day she says “Has your willy got bigger somehow?” Then that will be a great day indeed. I have not told her what I am doing and probably won’t unless she notices.

The one thing that I really want is a larger flaccid penis, but there are no changes there. My penis is ever changing, some days it looks bigger than others, but when it’s at it’s smallest it really doesn’t look any bigger. Is there a technique that deals with this? This is the real reason that I want a bigger one - though obviously I would love to have a larger erect penis as well.

I have had no girth breakthroughs either. The girth remains the same at about 5”. Any tips on this?

Lastly:- What happens in our life that makes us ashamed of our penises?

Sorry to go on - it’s been great to ask the questions and talk about something that has been a secret to me for the last four months!

Always be proud of your dick, and show it to anyone who wants to! If you want bigger size ,enlarge it. But no point being ashamed wtf no way! :D

Your dick is perfectly normal- average. If you’ve seen gains, that’s great, believe it. This IS working.
And forget about flaccid. What matters is your erect values, you don’t screw with a flaccid, so it doesn’t matter.

Do the more advanced girth exercises if you wish to enlarge further.
Good luck!

ps: Being ashamed of penis is one of the most meaningless things I can ever imagine. If you would feel better because of having a larger dick than others, what’s the meaning? Bigger dick means better sex for me, so if you want bigger, enlarge the only dick you have, whether it’s big or small. And forget the show thing. You can have great sex with a small dick too. So my advice: forget it.

Good luck!
(and,, welcome to Thunders! :D )

Try this one: Fowfers. I have just started doing them while asleep and does seem to work. Problem is I live in the Southern Hemishere and it is cold at the moment for Australian Standards. That doesnt help the ole flaccid length.

Reggib, your perfectly normal size,your flaccid length or appearance don’t mean squat! Lol, don’t be ashamed of who you are, you are what you are and if you try hard enough you’ll grow and as you said apparently you are, so don’t worry. And what you put under lastly.. I don’t think we’re ashamed of our penises.I just think that there are so many different sizes and that some are bigger and that’s just an appeal, you know.like when some one has a big 8incher or so they might be skinny like only 4in in girth were as smaller dicks seem to be more girthy and maybe not as lenghthy, don’t worry it’s your erections that count.and pleasing your woman ;)

I was very surprised the other day when talking to a friend. I thought everyone wanted a bigger penis, so I have started to spread the word of Thunder’s Place to some of my buddies. Though yesterday my friend said he was completely satisfied with his wang.. And I know he isn’t packing heat because of what his girlfriend has said. His idea was that if he can get a girl off with his size penis, why make it any bigger? I was really surprised to hear this, but it made me realize I have just been too self-conscious about my own size. I still want a bigger penis. Now I want it for a different reason. I am happy my penis is who he is, but I would like him to be bigger. I will no longer think I am too small. I will only be thankful for my gains and what I have! :D

Yup, ck. It certainly does take a special type of personality to want and stick with PE.

My friend told me something pretty funny a while ago when we were talking about size. We have a friend and his new philosophy supposedly is “Yeah my dick isn’t big at all, but you know what. I bet my girlfriend thinks it is when I shove it in her face!” :rolling:

Thanks for the support, the advice and the welcome all that replied. I have looked into Fowfers and also the clamping for girth.

As far as believing it, well, you just have to - it’s that simple. You have to have faith in that what you are doing is working. Measuring is merely a gauge. If that gauge hasn’t gone up (or has even decreased), then it’s time to make note of it and start looking for something to add that will add enough pressure to pump that gauge up for your next measurement.

It’s like in working out. You can do your cardio on your assigned cardio days, but if your %bodyfat isn’t reflecting improvement then it’s time to consider making a change to your workout and/or diet regimen. Your %bodyfat measurement (your unit measurement[s]) is just a gauge to display what results you’ve achieved from your previous month (or however often you measure). You don’t lose 70 lb’s of fat in 1 month, you typically lose 4-8 (healthily). In the same sense, you don’t gain 1 mile of unit in one month, you gain in the range of millimeters.

You have to understand that your body doesn’t understand that you’ll keep beating the sh*t out of it until certain goals are met, so as a result you just have to deal with the fact that you’re not going to grow wings overnight. Our bodies are methodical, everything is thought out (whether consciously or not). It only grows when provoked to do so, and even then, it only does what is necessary to get by and nothing more. This is why as you progress you’ll have to periodically increase either the time or intensity (or both) issued in your PE session(s). If you start out pounding your body with a sledgehammer, it’s going to adapt itself to be able to take those hits. As a result, after you’re body has done so, anything less than a sledgehammer will do minimal or no damage; and in order to provoke further growth you’ll have to find something that deals out more [“good”] damage than a sledgehammer… then more, and more, and more. So as I said, be patient, remain dedicated and committed, and your gains will come, and you can be sure that the +measurements you are seeing are indeed true.

Hopefully after reading what I just said you understand more of the “why” and “how” it works. I think that in understand such, you’ll be able to not only know for sure that what you’re seeing is true, but you’ll be able to find new ways to get closer to [and accomplish] your goal(s). :up: