Need some advice
PE has been a route that I have wanted to do for awhile but haven’t had that much motivation. I am just a little over average in both length and girth and I’ve never had problems getting girls off. I recently started dating a girl who has had sex with 9 other guys, and she has told me that I’m right in the middle of the guys she’s been with. She has also been with the two biggest guys that were in her high school when she was there, and one she was with for a long time. She is very honest, and she has told me when I’m not doing that great, but that was before I learned how she liked it. She has never mentioned anything and she always wants sex, she has gotten off every time but twice and she was stressed out those times, and we’ve had sex at least twice a day since we’ve been dating. Also, I’ve hurt her a couple times while I was really hard, and this is where it started to go downhill. We were talking about it afterwards and she said ” ____ was pretty big, but he never hurt me.” (this is other than times were he would keep having sex with her while she was crying because it hurt so bad). She also is a very small frame, 5”3 and skinny so it wouldn’t take a lot.
The second episode was when we used a condom (we’ve both been tested and are clean, she doesn’t like condoms so we don’t use them alot unless we’ve previously had sex that day without a shower inbetween). Some types of condoms hurt me and are too tight, and I had fit a magnum comfortably before without knowing it, the girl I had sex with had one and I just put it on. I complained about it hurting because it took me awhile to get it off and I was in pain for about an hour after. When I told her she said “I’m not trying to be mean or anything, but they never hurt _____ and he was bigger than you” Then she said something about me always being harder than him so that could’ve done it.
These two simple phrases have bothered me since she said them, and I used to be pretty comfortable with myself and didn’t necessarily want to PE, but these have been bothering me. She has told her friends and even her mom that we have great sex, and she wants it more and more. But I can’t get it out of my head that she said that. I can’t help but thinking that I’m just average and I know what I’m doing in bed, but what if I was bigger? I know I’m satisfying her, but I still feel inferior to her last boyfriend. My question to all of you is do you think it is worth it to put the time in for PE if she is already satisfied or am I just worrying too much?
Thanks in advance to all of you.