Need some advice

PE has been a route that I have wanted to do for awhile but haven’t had that much motivation. I am just a little over average in both length and girth and I’ve never had problems getting girls off. I recently started dating a girl who has had sex with 9 other guys, and she has told me that I’m right in the middle of the guys she’s been with. She has also been with the two biggest guys that were in her high school when she was there, and one she was with for a long time. She is very honest, and she has told me when I’m not doing that great, but that was before I learned how she liked it. She has never mentioned anything and she always wants sex, she has gotten off every time but twice and she was stressed out those times, and we’ve had sex at least twice a day since we’ve been dating. Also, I’ve hurt her a couple times while I was really hard, and this is where it started to go downhill. We were talking about it afterwards and she said ” ____ was pretty big, but he never hurt me.” (this is other than times were he would keep having sex with her while she was crying because it hurt so bad). She also is a very small frame, 5”3 and skinny so it wouldn’t take a lot.

The second episode was when we used a condom (we’ve both been tested and are clean, she doesn’t like condoms so we don’t use them alot unless we’ve previously had sex that day without a shower inbetween). Some types of condoms hurt me and are too tight, and I had fit a magnum comfortably before without knowing it, the girl I had sex with had one and I just put it on. I complained about it hurting because it took me awhile to get it off and I was in pain for about an hour after. When I told her she said “I’m not trying to be mean or anything, but they never hurt _____ and he was bigger than you” Then she said something about me always being harder than him so that could’ve done it.

These two simple phrases have bothered me since she said them, and I used to be pretty comfortable with myself and didn’t necessarily want to PE, but these have been bothering me. She has told her friends and even her mom that we have great sex, and she wants it more and more. But I can’t get it out of my head that she said that. I can’t help but thinking that I’m just average and I know what I’m doing in bed, but what if I was bigger? I know I’m satisfying her, but I still feel inferior to her last boyfriend. My question to all of you is do you think it is worth it to put the time in for PE if she is already satisfied or am I just worrying too much?

Thanks in advance to all of you.

If you are asking, probably is not worth.

PE requires time and consistency to give gains. A shorter and lighter approach to PE could give some benefit, like better penis health, and while one is a newbie some gains too. Maybe you don’t need more than that. Give it a try, but don’t expect 1”x0.5” gains or such if you don’t put some serious effort in this stuff.

Good luck :) .

Well the thing is is that I have plenty of time and be more than willing to put the time in, I just actually finished my first newbie workout.

My question was if anyone had experienced anything like this, and what they did. Or, would it make that much of a difference (not to brag but I got her to scream my name several times, which she was embarrassed and redfaced about afterwards because she told me she never did that before, and she tears up my back everytime we have sex, so it’s not bad, she told me that it’s up there with the best sex she’s ever had).

My goal is 7 x 6 and I am 6.1 nbpel and just 5.2 eg now.

Chaz Namob,

Why do you have such a hard time accepting the fact that you are a good lover? Stop obsessing about the other guy.

I was almost the same size like you are before starting PE ( 6.25” NBPEL x 5.25” EG ) and I was told by many women that I was great lover and one of the greatest kissers on the face of Earth. Actually one of them was joking that if there was a world championship in kissing I would be getting to at least semi finals every year. I am rather average looking dude ( I am 5’7” tall ) but I never had a problem getting hot women to sleep with me. I have to admit that it helps that I am an artist. Chicks like art even if they don’t understand it.

After a year and half of manual exercises and a year of water pumping I went to 7.75 NBPEL x almost 6.0 EG and I am still great lover and great kisser. All I can tell you is that a big penis is just a novelty. All those dudes who sucked in bed before their PE days, will suck in bed even if they manage to enlarge the size of their penises.

Money is much more important to women than a big penis. Fortunately lately I have been having both so it makes everything easier.

Don’t worry about the other guy and his size. I can assure you that it is more in your head than it is in your girlfriend’s head.

Hey Chaz, I’m here for almost the exact same reason you are. It’s been a bit over 2 weeks for me but I know what it’s like. Personally, I’m going to try and get myself larger so that I feel better about myself. Make sure you do it for yourself and you’ll be fine, just don’t do it for her. And like marinera said, don’t half-ass it, take it seriously and there are a lot of benefits. feel free to pm me if you want to talk about how to better deal with the things going on in your head and maybe I can offer more assistance. good luck :)

If you’re more comfortable wearing Magnums, Chaz, that’s what you should be wearing. If they fit you properly, without slippage, why would you wear anything else?

All due respect to your girl, but she’s not the one wearing the condom and feeling the pain because it’s too small. Why does she care what kind of condom you wear, as long as it works?

Or I could move this thread to Life, Love and Fantasies and you could continue the discussion there, if you’d like.

It also doesn’t help the pride when she wants me to finger her at the same time. She claims that it hits a spot that she likes, but I’ve done it not around that spot and she still gets off quicker, leading me to believe she wants to be stretched, and is what ultimately led me here.

She wants a finger and your penis inside at the same time in the same place? Sorry for the dumb question.

It stings when your girlfriend talks about other penises. She once told me that this one guy had a slightly thicker penis than mine. But the other guy she slept with had a much smaller and skinnier penis than me.

I’m really focusing on girth gains. Damn penis, I wish it could grow faster. :P

Oh by the way dude, why don’t you just get started on a PE routine? Dedicate yourself to this shit :) It can be pretty hard, but when you see/feel gains, it’s a good feeling.

Yea, she wants my finger inside her with my dick. It was hard to do at first and she was tighter but now it’s a little earsier. I don’t do it everytime, but she cums faster that way, but she still gets off when we don’t. She’s got a spot on the botton of her vagina that is very sensitive and she likes me to play with that.

And Radio I’m in the same spot as you. My girl really liked a guy who had a small penis, but she has also had 2 or 3 guys bigger than me, the biggest she only had once and he was terrible and only lasted about a minute. She has said we have hot sex, and she said something about she could have different kinds with me like just sex, love making, and fucking. This was important because she only could do that with her previous boyfriend who was bigger than me.

I think the thing that bothers me the most is that she never compares me to him in terms of skill. Which makes me think that he was just as good, but only bigger.

And I have already started, I’m about a week in and I’m using the advanced newbie routine. I want girth gains mostly as well because she’s small and I don’t want to hurt her because sometimes when we do it doggy she gets a stomach ache afterwards and I feel terrible. Her ex used to make her cry missionary and keep going for like 10 minutes, which shows how big he was. He also did this to the girl that he was cheating on her with (her and the girl are best friends now, weird I know). The thing I have noticed though is that with more sex I hang more, and I turtle up a little after exercising. I hang at about 5 nbpfl so me being shy isn’t a problem, but flaccid doesn’t matter to me. I don’t care if my dick is an inch flaccid, if it’s 7.5 or 8 when I’m hard thats when it matters to me.

Well, if you do think that having some more girth could help your sex, it mostly depends on your consistency to get it. One of the newbies routine is the best choice. Do it for some weeks and let us know how it goes.

Good luck :) .