Need help troubleshooting stamina
Sorry for the post length, I’ll try to keep it short..
I’m having issues with coming too fast, and it’s really getting me down. Once upon a time I could literally go for hours and not come until I was ready, which was always 2nd in line. Now I’m coming much faster and it’s depressing.
A lot has changed, and I really need to get this thing figured out. For pretty much all my sex partners, it was like that. And when I first met my wife and for the first few years, we’d have frequent and satisfying sex.
Fast forward through normal life, 2 kids, career, etc, we had the usual once a month. I’d watch porn and masturbate regularly to fill in, but that never affected anything.
Much to my surprise and enjoyment, 3 or 4 months ago her libido started kicking up. Now she wants to bang away 3 days a week, and I couldn’t be more excited. Except I can’t hang as long as I could before, which is both depressing and pissing me off.
Same: partner - Been married 10 years
Masturbation - Used to jerk off daily, now jerk off daily (or a little less)
Different: Diet - Been on low(ish) calorie diet to loose weight
Weight - Lost 50lbs in the last 2 years. (I think that might be part of the libido increase :-)
PE Size - Gained half inch length, lost some girth.
Supplements - Taking whey protein, EC stack, and nightly zinc/magnesium
Age - This is the X factor. The story started at 22, I’m now 32 years old. I wouldn’t think it would be that different, am I wrong?
I have some other thoughts, but wanted to see if you guys had any advice before I start looking at “last longer” creams/pills and stuff.
2-2010: 6.5x5.5. Want moar!
5-2011: 7.0x5.0. Was going for girth; not doin it right.