Need Girth not Length

If you don’t mind my asking. What are the “hobbies” you’re talking about? Swinging, or cuckold?

Well I don’t know what cuckold means lol but our hobbies involved very large toys. Up to 8-9” girth for the last 15yrs.

ouch

Ouch is right. Have you two thought about using smaller toys? It would be a lot easier than yanking on you dick. I’m just saying.

Yeah, we decided a couple weeks ago to quit the large toys. :( It’s been a fetish of mine and it’s hard to give up but I realized I need to if I want her to be happy. I just want to concentrate on her and I. But let me tell you size does matter when it comes to the female orgasm. She gets off very very hard with the large toys almost to the point of blacking out. Very exciting to see! So she is doing her kegels and I’m doing my thing. We’ll see how it goes.

Yeah that happens when you hit the hypothalamus with a dildo.bahhhahaha ;)

I hope things workout for you.

she will get tighter with kegels for sure and when you do gain some girth then you will feel each other again.

just for the science:
How far do you get the dildos in? What you think is the optimal size to get your wife off?

Probably about 7” with the larger ones. I think 8x7 would be the optimal size for her. Maybe a little shorter. I don’t think I can get a whole inch of girth though but I am sure as hell going to try!