My words of advice.
I have been busy with work lately and haven’t spent a lot of time in this forum. The last couple of days I have spent more time here just to kindof
catch up on the latest and greatest. One thing that I have noticed is that there are a lot of guys that come in here looking for answers about their relationships. Now I love giving advice as well as getting advice, with problems, this is a great place to ask those type of questions that you can’t ask your next door neighbor (although If any next door neighbor is a PE’r it would be Wilson from home improvement).
Many young men come here asking about sex for the first time, or whether women like this or that, and there are plenty of people here who are more than happy to share their own experiences. However, having your own experiences, and your own set of problems is what is going to make you the man that you are ultimately going to be. Don’t get caught up in thinking that there is something wrong with you , or that you are a freak if your situation is different that someone elses. Your girlfriend, wife, or partner is not the same as ours, they have had different experiences, they may or may not know the things that you learn from reading this forum, and they may not know how you feel about the things that they say or do.
At the end of the day when all is said and done, even if your penis is tiny, and your lover dosn’t scream in pain because of your massive girth, if they are still with you when you close your eyes and go to sleep, then the size doesn’t matter to them as much as being with you. So if you are PEing and you aren’t gaining as well or as fast as you had hoped, dont get discouraged, this isn’t all that matters to women, and it doesn’t measure how much of a man you are.
Some men would put a number on a woman, like saying that she is a ten, but does that mean that you would never date a three? even if she were the most wonderful person to talk to and she understood you so well that she was always there when you needed her? If a three was your best friend for life, would you not date her if you happened to fall in love?
I know that there are times that we all feel our situation is hopeless, and that it is useless to try and change anything. One rule that I have always tried to live by is that, when something just doesn’t feel “right” give it time, something will change and then you will be able to see thing sin a different way that will help you to know what is “right”.
If I had to stop PE tomorrow, for whatever reason, it may take a while to accept the fact that my penis would not be growing, but I eventually accepted that I will never be six feet tall, but I am not gonna waste time worrying about it. Keep yourself healthy, both mentally and physically, and you will be happier.
Keep posting your questions, and we will keep answering them.