My Story - Need Feedback From Experience
I’m a healthy (except this) 34 year old male who has never had a problem with strong erections…Until now. My erections are weak, I have some morning wood, but it is also very weak, and I have also noticed that whereas my erection used to be rock hard and you could not even bend it down, it can now get about half as hard, and it can bend in any direction.
Currently, I am experiencing something no man should have to experience at this age and stage: weak erections. I have no idea why this is happening, but it has been going on for about 3 months now.
About me: I work out 5 days a week, doing cardio and weights. I am generally very upbeat, but the last two years have been very stressful. That said, I can always rise to the occasion when I am stressed, nor do I feel completely depressed, except NOW I am started to get depressed and become more anti-social because my equipment is not working properly. As recently as July when I was sexually active, my erections were in great condition.
PE: I have not done any PE, jelqing, etc. So this would not be the result of some fatigue, over training, or injury.
Doctor: I have been to a GP and he thinks it is just stress or all in my head, but I disagree. I am now considering going to urologist to have further tests done.
Masturbation: In the last two years I have been masturbating A LOT more often. In July, August, September, and even a bit in October of this year, I was masturbating almost daily. At first, I was thinking this was just fatigue from over masturbation, but the doctor said that is just a myth. However, I am not sure this doctor is “really in the know” as he’s quite a bit older and is a GP in OZ and basically isn’t a penis specialist of any sort.
KEGL: When I kegl, it does not feel like much blood is flowing to the penis as it did before. This worries me as I have noticed a considerable reduction in the bloodflow when I do this. I am worried that I have done some sort of permanent damage to the blood vessels in my penis and the blood is thus not flowing properly.
Psyche: This is hindering me from being more social. I see girls and want to take them out and hook up, but feel that I am “not ready” to perform and thus am not taking advantage of opportunities like I should.
My Approach: I am just going to take it easy and forgo masturbation for all of December. If things do not improve by Jan. 1st, I am going to the urologist.
This is now starting to really affect my psyche, which I’m sure only makes it worse. I have scaled back masturbation to about twice a week, and that is not helping at all. I am thinking of getting a scrip for Viagra just to see if that gets me rock hard, as it has before, the few (3-4) times I took it in my 20s, but I think I’ll just give my dick a break and hope that it get’s back to normal on it’s own.
Does anyone have any thoughts, experience, or advice??? Thanks in advance, fellas. I was somewhat insecure about size (average, 6BPEL, 4.5 EG) over the years, but I am very confident in my abilities in bed and know that I can please a woman well.
I look forward to your replies!!