I’m doing 300 strokes a day with the jelq stick/drumstick method. I feel it’s more aggressive and satistying and less boring than the manual jelqs along. I will post pictures of my device too, and show you how it works. Its very simple; two plungers, the end screwed off one, a whole made in the sucker of the remaining one and the dowel shoved through. it sounds crude but can be used vertically for safety.
the reason i mention safety foremost is because i heard that jelqing with sticks (someone said it in the chatroom) acutally damaged or could risk damaging nerves in the penis. if this is correct then yes i would consider doing it vertically as the best way.
some people still don’t agree and say that manual jelqings the best. I’m still learning argue the pros and cons in this thread and i may consider changing, i dont see the difference myself am i missing something? the only thing i really see is that the guys who do it seem to have it to a fine art. are there any fine artists in the group who can explain that it is easier to use hands rather than sticks?
i sound pessimistic i’m not but i got to about 150 manual strokes and gave up. i could do it even without having to sit by the bed too (which with the drumsticks i have to stand: i lay the plunger on the mattress, standing i do the excercise). Maybe its an illusion because i’m using a tool instead of my hands; it just seems quicker and more productive.
still, some guys in the group disagree. if i’m doing it safe then whats the problem? please rephrase your arguments those who dont agree and i may change my whole program by the end of the week.
i’ve missed two days out of six. they say its easier getting into a good habit than getting out of a bad one.
if i keep diaries and measurements that can be labourious, too. I have dyscalculia which is the mathematical form of dyslexia. when i work with numbers i get very bored very quickly.
once again, thanks for having me. i know i’m not the smallest guy in the group and i’ve probably got more of a psychological complex as you say but i guess its a hobby; something to do that dosent take up too little/much of your time and the results are permanent so why not?
i do know how guys feel who haven’t got much. a friend of mine confided. I explained jelq. Lets also not forget as were working towards our goals lets not be modest or take this too seriously. it’s not a clinical thing its more of a hobby; like weight training or even sex. it could be seen as preparation for a sexual hobby or foreskin restoration for comfort.
i consider this hobby as being useful and rewarding, testing theories. having a bigger penis dosent make you a better person, its more likely to make you cocksure of yourself and the opposite unless you feel you were born with micropenis as a condition (which is a condition in its own right). It’s also true that we come from different generations with different beliefs about penis size.
thanks whoever it was who said the problem is all in the mind. sorry for flaming the group with my longwinded explanations!!!
-peguy happy gaining