My PE Journey, Lurk No More
I’ve been a lurker on here for probably almost 1.5 years, doing various forms of PE all along the way including right now. I’ll try not to get to long with this post, but there a few things to talk about, what I’ve learned along the way, etc.
My PE journey started sometime in 2010 and, unlike some people, was not the result of having my penis size ridiculed. I had hardly even measured it until then as it always got the job done and I never heard any complaints-even got some compliments. I started, and this is sort of a rough guess, at ~6.25” x ~5” being BPEL and mid-shaft girth. The base was probably a little bigger then as it is now. I am currently 7.5” x 6” BPEL and mid-shaft girth with the base girth as much as 6.5” or 6.75” depending on erection quality. They are pretty impressive gains, taking me from fairly close to average to well above, statistically speaking in the big range. I’m 6’2 200 lbs with no fat pad and on my body, and to me it doesn’t really look big or proportional. Only when a girl puts her hands on it or her face next to it do I see it for its real size. Due to my body size my fear has been that girls will be expecting a crazy 9” porn dick and I actually turned down sex with some in fear that they might be disappointed and tell their friends, etc. I know of people will think I’m crazy for thinking this at my size, but I can tell you that being a size, and feeling like you are actually at that size can be two very different things.
So, after that long introduction here are some things I have learned, both about PE and about sex with women with a bigger dick. I have tried the newbie routine, hanging, clamping, and am currently pumping. I think that jelqing and stretching really gave me my best gains in both length and girth, but it is my hope that pumping will get me to the ‘infamous’ 8 X 6 size so many here are after. I fear that with only that .5” of extra length it won’t really look bigger to me, but saying I’ve got 8” has been a fantasy since I started this journey.
Be consistent: Consistency was probably the biggest factor for me, being able to do long workout very often due to being in college and having that sort of schedule.
Use Heat: I definitely noticed an increase in effectiveness of workouts using heat while stretching, jelqing, etc. By pointing a small, portable heater at my crotch. I can’t tell you how much this would make me sweat, living in Florida as I was
At that time.
Experiment: I was sort of impatient with exercises, where if I went 2+ months without any indication of a gain I would move on or switch it up. Some people might say this is wrong, but for me the proof is in the pudding.
Learn to Listen to your Body: I never really got injured besides some soreness from the vac hanger and I think this is because I am very in tune with my body. Pain from injury and soreness from a good workout are VERY different, and you
Have to learn this and recognize the signs.
Use Quality Equipment: I have a great pump, many clamps, the Bib hanger, and have made various hangers and extenders myself. I don’t think I would’ve had near my girth gains without the clamps and pump. I probably didn’t log enough hours with the Bib to justify it, but I did see about 1/4” form it in length.
I can actually say that getting a bigger dick has actually changed my life, both for the better and worse. I notice myself having to go really slow with most girls now, I get a decent amount of comments, and have had at least 2 girls squirt that had never done it before; how good that feels to hear I cannot put into words. Blow jobs aren’t worse now, they just are really focused on the head and don’t get very far down the shaft. Having seen my flaccid go from about 3.5” to 5.5” has been a HUGE change, and I have had many looks from other guys at the urinals while at the bar. I also teach surf lessons in the summer wearing and a wetsuit top (I live in CA) and I have had many crotch watchers during lessons while I demonstrate how to stand up.
I guess my main point is that I am living proof that PE works, will make your sex life better, but will not solve your problems or make you happy, in and of itself. Most girls I slept with didn’t seem to really care about the size of my penis except when one girl told me she wished it was smaller because it hurt-which actually felt good to hear in a sick way I guess. All the comments in the world won’t make you happy about your penis until you actually believe that you are happy. That probably sounds weird, but even when I would hear “You feel really good” I would wonder why she didn’t she “You feel big,” was I not big enough to elicit that response? I am finally getting happy about my size and due to the hours of my career I will definitely go into retirement once I hit 8” EL regardless of whether it looks big or not. In reality it is, convincing myself mine is big is my own thing to wrestle with. Good luck all you newbies, intermediates, and veterans out there and please wish me the same in return. We’re all in this together, I look forward to helping out anyone I can in their quest for a bigger penis.
Start: 6.25 x 5
Now: 7.5 x 6+