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My issue.


My issue.

This is my first post ever.. Where should I begin? I’m 5.75 inches by ~4.5 inches erect. Flaccid, I don’t even know. I try not to think about it. I’ve tried jelqing but I cannot maintain even the smallest semblance of an erection, even with porn. I don’t know where to begin, but I need to. I’m not happy, to put it simply. Sorry to sound like a whiner, but what the hell should I do? At this point I’ll take on any routine or any advice of any type. My size makes me miserable. I blame my girlfriend somewhat, but mostly my pitiful insecure self for being this way. Wah wah wah, I know. Here’s what I want: 8.6 X 5.5. I know it will never happen, but I just want to top the one guy I’ve heard so fucking much about. If anyone has any suggestions for getting there I’ll take them.

To be a bit more realistic, I’d like:

Good EQ
Adult-looking flaccid length (like what, 3 inches would make me happier than I am now)
7 inch (or more) length
A little bit bigger in the girth department.


Ok unique, start by relaxing. Take a deep breath.

I know it’s hard to do, but you need to stop thinking the wrong way. You feel miserable because you keep hearing about a guy with a big dick, did I get that part right?

Regarding your penis itself, start with the newbie routine and be consistent. A change will occur.

:chicken: My chicken is on the path of becoming a big cock! :rooster:

There is nothing wrong with your size. A big dick isn’t what it takes to please a woman. Confidence in yourself is a really big turn on for women as is consideration of her needs over yours. If she belittles your size dump the bitch and get a new one.

I say you just need to work on getting better EQ because it sounds like you having trouble getting an erection to jelq may be due to stress and/or bad EQ. I would limit myself to newbie routine and maybe even a lighter version of it. Maybe you can benefit from very light pumping say two 5 minute sessions a day at 3hg after jelqing then work on those kegels. I think you would increase your EQ very much and dump the woman talking about that large guy all the time hell women rarely can gauge a mans size. If you are stress free and working a good PE routine for your advancement level nothing but positives will come. Good luck.

I would tell her if she didn’t like what I had to find the door!
Sounds like a negative you don’t need in your life.
Tell her she has a huge gaping vagina that reminds you of an old worn out rubber boot.(Ok maybe not the best approach)

I am about the same size as you and have been jelqing and stretching for the past two months or so and am starting to see small gains.
If you put in the time and effort it will happen!!

You are going to have to focus. I don’t use porn when I jelq. I just focus on what I am doing and think about what it is doing for me.

Good luck and keep us posted

Unique, welcome to the posting side of the forum. First of all, look here. The absolute best, tried-and-true, routine to get you started. Read, and re-read the great info on the first page of the newbie forum, and keeps us informed about your progress and questions.

Good luck!

:_pump: :donatecar

How old are you? Why you can’t mantain an erection? When your erection problems started?

I’d suggest, as kinda a ‘quick fix’, starting pumping - but read carefully the ‘pumping 101’ thread.

At the same time, start with the newbie routine. If yu can’t do wet jelqs, dry flaccid jelqs would be a good substitute IMHO. Your erection issues could require to be checked with your Doc, to know which the causes are.

Good luck and keep posting.

If, for whatever reason your girl is insensitive to be talking about other dicks, unless you were stupid enough to ask her, I would but her on a bus.

Began December 2009 at 5 7/8" length and 5" girth.

As of December 5th 2012 7 3/8" BPEL and 6 1/8" base girth.

Going for the magic 8"x6"

Originally Posted by JoyStick
There is nothing wrong with your size. A big dick isn’t what it takes to please a woman. Confidence in yourself is a really big turn on for women as is consideration of her needs over yours. If she belittles your size dump the bitch and get a new one.

Get a new woman, possibly a virgin and pe for life, this old pal is the winning move for you

Start 6.5 bpel 5.75 eg Current bpel 7.0 eg 6.75 (7.0eg base) Goal bpel 7.25 eg 7.0 mid shaft

Progress routine and pics/vids

You’re bigger than what I started with, and I’m currently 7.5 x 5.5 after 4 years.

It just takes time/dedication

Thanks guys, it’s true that I am intensely stressed. I’ve always kind of wanted more but it wasn’t until just the past year that it has really bothered me. My girlfriend isn’t an insensitive bitch, she just has no filter. That’s actually one of the things I love about her, but it can be a problem when she just says whatever comes to mind. She thinks I’m stupid for hating my dick, and she’s right.

That said, I’ve been lurking the forums for almost a year off and on, and have tried the newbie routine. I just can’t get/stay hard because I’m so focused on the technical aspects of what I’m doing. Even while having sex or extremely aroused my EQ is vary rarely 100%. I’m about to turn 22 for the record.

I also have tried pumping, but the cylinder was to wide and was really just making my pubic pad look really.. Strange. Almost sucked in a testicle once too. What dimensions should I go with for a cylinder?

I think for now I’m just going to do some stretches and kegels, and maybe try to easy my way into the newbie routine. I feel like I could have gained so much since I joined this forum and I’ve been wasting so much time.

Makemelarge, what routines have worked so well for you?

What exactly this girl had say about your size? and what exactly did she said about the other´s guy dick?

Ahora:Longitud: 18 BP Grosor: :littleguy avanzado a los 14 EG.

Metas:Longitud: 20 BP Grosor: 15 EG.

Originally Posted by avantasia
What exactly this girl had say about your size? And what exactly did she said about the other´s guy dick?

Without getting into to much detail, all her ex’s (well, most) were huge and the one she was so in love with and all hung up on when we met was around 8.5. I’ve seen measured pictures. She say’s I’m fine. She loves me the way I am. She has never had a complaint about my dick and insists that it’s average. Let’s leave it at that.

Well, first, I really doubt that all of her ex´s were 8,5” second, how come in hell´s way that she showed pics of him? I mean, that is really bizarre.

Third, just concentrate on PE, and I´m really sure that if you put all your effort in PE, you would be able to pass him and become her biggest.

Just dont worry and put all your effort on PE.

Ahora:Longitud: 18 BP Grosor: :littleguy avanzado a los 14 EG.

Metas:Longitud: 20 BP Grosor: 15 EG.

Here my perspective. This is coming from a guy that is very similar size. (You are a tad longer, and I am a tad thicker)

There will be an amount of hypocrisy on these forums. You will hear things like, “you are average size” or ‘you have plenty to please her” or “its not the size of your dick its the …(insert cliche here). Then in the next thread you will hear, “bigger is better”, “I want to be the biggest she has ever had”, “she will not feel filled up with average”, and countless other comments that tell you that size matters. You will drive yourself absolutely bonkers if you listen to egomaniacs bragging about how great they are in the sack because of their big dick. My thought is, its not about your dick, its about your attitude.

I am also following a 8.5x6. It DOES take an incredible amount of self esteem to follow a dick that is twice your size in cubic inches volume. But it can be done, with dignity, finesse, confidence, and style. Being over twice your age, I may have more experience with the female body parts, and that is an advantage, granted.

With all due respect to the thread starters,

Try reading threads like this:
Young Guys - SiZE ANXIETY is DUMB
(There are countless more like this on TP)

And stop reading posts like this:

The power of a big dick

I have said this here before and will stand by this statement, Bigger is NOT ALWAYS better. Anyone that tells you that is true is fooling themselves. Dude, don’t let them fool you and don’t let your GF fool you.

Good luck Bro!!

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