My guy is bettering himself how can I?

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As far as toys go, do not - I repeat - do not get a huge dildo.
Because, if your husband sees you having the biggest orgasms from the gigantic fake phallus, he may become jealous and feel inadequate.

Thanks for the heads up “no pun intended” lol

In regards to anal sex 789’s advice is great but the key is in the classic Franky goes to Hollywood song- “RELAX”

If you are nervous and clenching your anus when he is trying to enter you you will leave yourself open for some serious injury. From what I’ve read you should NEVER clench during anal sex as this can cause damage and in the long run will make it so you can’t control things down there.

I’m sure some of the ladies and guys that have received anal sex would be much better at giving advice.

As far as toys, I totally agree- you should never buy anything bigger than your man- if anything slightly smaller would be the way to go. That way there will be no Dildo envy from him. I would even advise if he suggests that you get bigger than him you refuse I had a girlfriend that I bought a massive dildo for and when she used it it was really hot but afterwards I felt totally inadequate.

MDH,

Buy whatever size toy you like. Just keep it to yourself if it’s bigger than his.

Hello I think I know what you mean by down there. Do you want to know if there is anything or anyway to help you tighten your pussy?
I bought this for my wife last year.

http://www.kege … master2000.com/

She used it when she first got it and it worked out great. To make a long story short we we barely used it this year except for in the beginning. Just recently she began to use it again. It has only been 2 weeks in around 10 times and she has tightened up alot. I imagine She will be very tight in a month or so.

I Hope this is what you were looking for!

Hi mdh,

Welcome to the Thunders

Thanks Maxwell, I saw something on another website similar and I was skeptical. But thanks again.

Mantak Chia wrote a book several years ago about using an onyx egg to kegel with. One of the reviews is here:

It’s different in that he (actually his wife) teaches you how to control the other “involuntary” bands of muscles in addition to the PC muscles. There are excercises to tip the egg, to make the egg travel up and down, etc.

My ex did it for a short period of time, and it did help. I can only imagine what it’d be like if she really stuck to it.

One last thing… the more advanced version has weights hanging down from the egg!

I was trying to Post on Pe Products/reviews and I was unable (not sure why). But I was going to tell how my husband found out about PE and it wasn’t from this site unfortunately. So I found this site after he told me about PE and I told him about this site but he has not visited it yet. So I am a member and the one doing PE is not. Oh well. I think I might be more into this than he is. Could that be a bad thing?

Well, (stroking Freudian goatee) you could do his PE for him…could be some great times ahead for you!

Invested interest perhaps? You see a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow? You know how this story unfolds?

We need more women on this forum…

I would suggest getting into your g-spot. After some g-spot masturbation my wife squirted one night and it blew me away -very exciting! So now we do it fairly often. At first it freaked her out because the sensation feels sort of like you’re gong to pee, but in fact it’s totally different fluid.

First off, MDH711, welcome to the board!!

It’s always good to have females on here that support their men in their PE endeavor.

Okay,

how come nobody suggested enemas before having anal sex? It can take away the worries for a woman about anal being messy. A Fleet enema is only a $1.50 at most drugstores. Anal can be a great addition to anyones sex life when done properly and with patience. LOTS of lube is essential…

In regards to toys, well, me and my GF just purchased a Pyrex Glass Butt Plug and guess what…she absolutely loves the feeling. It has absolutely no friction when sliding it in, it’s nonporous so clean up is very easy and provides great stimulation while having sex.

Be adventurous…write him some “dirty” notes, what you’d like to do to him, or what you would like for him to do to you. Send him e-mails during the day so he can’t wait to come home etc.

I told my GF once that I’d like her to suck me off to completion like her life depends on it. She did and used lots of saliva…a sloppy, slurping BJ…like you see in porn flicks and that was a major turn on. She has done it ever since…

Also, being seductive and a little kinky as a woman is something that every guy likes!

Hope that helps, 711

It will only be a bad thing if he feels you are pressuring him or not satisfied with him. In which case it will be a very bad thing. It’s one thing to PE to improve your sex life it’s another to PE to make your sex life enjoyable. As long as you are supportive and not pushy it should be cool.

Stubby, Thanks for your last post and the one prior. I totally understand what you mean. Thanks again to everyone else who posted as well. Have a good weekend.

Hi mdh711

You were saying your husband is PE’ing? If he wanted you could possibly help with jelqing if that is what he is currently doing. I feel you’ll achieve better results if it is someone else doing the jelqing, same as milking a cow, you are pulling towards yourself. Whereas when PE’rs jelq its reverse grip and away from yourself, therefor not as effective. You’ll be able achieve greater pressure and so ensure better results. In the same time it will solve the problem of keeping an erection/semi-erection and he would not have to resort to adult material.

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