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My girls screaming more

Was having sex with my girl last night and for the first time ever she couldn’t bear it, she said it was really painful,there has been times in the past when it hurt a little but not like this,she kept on saying has your dick grown wha hoo!

Now I can’t really see a big difference, maybe it could be something to do with her, been PEing for about 2 months.Can it grow and you can’t really notice a change to the eye.Because if that is not a positive indicator I don’t no what is. Lol.

Get some lube pronto if you want her to want sex with your ever expanding cock. No point having a bigger dick if your girl’s afraid to use it.


"Drilla Knows Ass" - Para-Goomba

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Congratz dude, I think the whole point (at least for me) is for our girls to notice. Although I agree with drilla9, lube it up. I don’t want to cause my girlfriend pain. More along the lines of having to ease into at first, before she gets used to my new size kind of thing.

That’s exciting she asked you if you’re dick has grown - that’s probably a fantasy we all have. For both of your sakes, loosen her up, lube yourself up, ease in, and make it feel better for both of you!


1st START: 11.29.02 -> BPEL: 6.06", EG: 4.63", FL: 3.31", EVol: 10.3 (Quit after 3 weeks.)

2nd START: 12.09.07-> BPEL: 6.25", EG: 4.75", FL: 3.5", EVol: 11.2 (9% increase)

RECENT: 02.03.08 ----> BPEL: 6.44", EG: 5.00", FL: 3.5", EVol: 12.8 (24% increase)

Originally Posted by dickie davis
Was having sex with my girl last night and for the first time ever she couldn’t bear it, she said it was really painful,there has been times in the past when it hurt a little but not like this,she kept on saying has your dick grown wha hoo!
Now I can’t really see a big difference, maybe it could be something to do with her, been PEing for about 2 months.Can it grow and you can’t really notice a change to the eye.Because if that is not a positive indicator I don’t no what is. Lol.

Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay.

Girls can tolerate enormous cocks while highly aroused. Hold back your penetration and give her first orgasm with your tongue.


Started: oct 2007 with 11.8 cubic inches

Currently: apr 2008 12.8 cubic inches

Objective: >20 cubic inches

A little off topic but Karl’s post just brought it up. When me and my girlfriend are fooling around and I go down on her and giver her her first orgasm she is so spent and exhausted from it that she can’t do anything for about 15-20 minutes afterwards and is really tired the rest of the night. My question is, is this normal? I mean in pornos and stuff you see this chick orgasm and they don’t skip a beat they just keep going. I love going down on her but I also want to have sex but it seems that it’s either one or the other. Also I am the first person she’s been with sexually so I’m not sure if that has anything to do with it, like her body isn’t used to it or something. Anyways I want to make her orgasm before we even have sex because then it’s not only supposed to be easier to make a woman orgasm after she’s already had one but also it’s like you already have on in the bag so there’s less pressure. I really want to give her multiple orgasms but it seems like I have to wait 30mins before going near her vagina again. Is this common?

Originally Posted by dickie davis
Was having sex with my girl last night and for the first time ever she couldn’t bear it, she said it was really painful,there has been times in the past when it hurt a little but not like this,she kept on saying has your dick grown wha hoo!
Now I can’t really see a big difference, maybe it could be something to do with her, been PEing for about 2 months.Can it grow and you can’t really notice a change to the eye.Because if that is not a positive indicator I don’t no what is. Lol.

Great post dickie. If that isn’t motivation to continue, I don’t know what is.

Originally Posted by dwight

A little off topic but Karl’s post just brought it up. When me and my girlfriend are fooling around and I go down on her and giver her her first orgasm she is so spent and exhausted from it that she can’t do anything for about 15-20 minutes afterwards and is really tired the rest of the night. My question is, is this normal? I mean in pornos and stuff you see this chick orgasm and they don’t skip a beat they just keep going. I love going down on her but I also want to have sex but it seems that it’s either one or the other. Also I am the first person she’s been with sexually so I’m not sure if that has anything to do with it, like her body isn’t used to it or something. Anyways I want to make her orgasm before we even have sex because then it’s not only supposed to be easier to make a woman orgasm after she’s already had one but also it’s like you already have on in the bag so there’s less pressure. I really want to give her multiple orgasms but it seems like I have to wait 30mins before going near her vagina again. Is this common?

That’s perfectly normal dwight, don’t attach real life to what you see in porn films. When my girl orgasms heavily, she’s pretty much out of bounds for 20-30 minutes after, as am I! :)


"Drilla Knows Ass" - Para-Goomba

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Nice goin! ;P

Originally Posted by dwight
A little off topic but Karl’s post just brought it up. When me and my girlfriend are fooling around and I go down on her and giver her her first orgasm she is so spent and exhausted from it that she can’t do anything for about 15-20 minutes afterwards and is really tired the rest of the night. My question is, is this normal? I mean in pornos and stuff you see this chick orgasm and they don’t skip a beat they just keep going. I love going down on her but I also want to have sex but it seems that it’s either one or the other. Also I am the first person she’s been with sexually so I’m not sure if that has anything to do with it, like her body isn’t used to it or something. Anyways I want to make her orgasm before we even have sex because then it’s not only supposed to be easier to make a woman orgasm after she’s already had one but also it’s like you already have on in the bag so there’s less pressure. I really want to give her multiple orgasms but it seems like I have to wait 30mins before going near her vagina again. Is this common?

What Drilla said.

Every woman is different. What you describe is not uncommon though. As you mentioned, it is possible that some of it is due to inexperience and not being used to those feelings. Also, women go through incredible hormonal changes over the course of the month. Pay attention to how her arousal levels change, when she seems incredibly horny, when she is initiates sex (or is particularly flirtatious), and notice where these events fall in her monthly cycle. The most common peak horniness times seem to be around ovulation (mid-cycle), and around the time of menstruation (sometime before, sometimes during, and sometimes the first week after).

It may be that you can find a window during each cycle where you can get a crazy multi-orgasmic session going, but the rest of month is more a one off thing like you described.

One suggestion for modifying the approach you’ve been using is to prolong the pleasure before she has that one orgasm when you’re going down on her. Make her beg for it. After bringing her close and pulling back several times, finish her off with sex—just when she’s about to go over the top, give her the ‘ol kielbasa.

When you do slip it to her, right when she’s on the verge of coming, try using this sure fire technique and you’ll be golden.

I think a good rule of thumb, other than more foreplay, it this. If you girl is flinching or indicating discomfort, slow WAY down, and skip any real thrusting until she is indicating she is doing better.

Many time, if girth is too much, just going slow until she relaxes will do the trick…a lot like anal. If length is giving her problems, if after going slow until she is really worked up doesn’t do the trick, just don’t pound it all the way in.

I think with time, most of these problems go away as she adjusts.

In general, its not good to start with pounding away anyway…unless she’s really worked and is giving subtle hints like pulling on your ass and screaming “fuck me hard”.

For most gals, if you start slow, especially just using the first 1-2 inches of your cock on the opening of her vagina, they will really get worked up and start trying to pull you in deeper. Its a good trick to wait for that, then its usually fine.

Its a fun trick that usually enhances their enjoyment if you make them beg a little too! Most women enjoy feeling a little slutty, and begging you for your cock enhances that feeling.

This is a perfect example of improved EQ being an enhancement alone. Dickie I don’t know if you have gained or not, but from your post I am fairly certain you have a harder erection.

Just being that much harder makes a difference. Now you and your girl get to start the process of learning how to use the new you. Based on my experience, be patient with her and she will become more enthusiastic than ever before.


Sept. 4, '07: BPEL 6.875 inches, EG widest 5.25

Goal: Double digits

Thanks guys I really appreciate the advise and support. Sometimes I get carried away when I go down on her because I like it so much so it’s almost like teasing myself by making her wait. I’m definitely going to try harder though to make her beg for it and finish her off with the “‘ol kielbasa” like cheeva said. Again I really appreciate the advise and I know my girlfriend will.

Dwight-

As others have mentioned here, what your girlfriend does is quite normal, and it may that this is just the way it is.

I am sure you know that there are at least two kinds of orgasms. You and her could look into information regarding vaginal orgasms as compared to clitoral orgasms.

There are more ways to achieve vaginal orgasms than we have talked about here. It also seems to me that vaginal orgasms come with more experience for women, and are easier to obtain as you get bigger.

If it seems it is “one or the other”, you might try talking about it with her. If she isn’t allowing you to penetrate right after, that would be something to try. Lots of lube, and very slow stokes, like one every 5-15 seconds to start. Avoid contact with the clitoris if she is built so that it touches you while coupled. I think this may work well as she seems to be very relaxed, and being relaxed is very important.

It could also work out that she is very surprised at her reaction and feelings if/when she orgasms again or in a different way. I mean she may VERY surprised.

If you two are working at it too hard, the next level probably won’t happen. Just “getting drunk and screwing”, having fun celebrating sex is the first thing to do.

Women in particular seem to have preconceived ideas as to how sex should be. It can be challenging to get them to let go and experience all that it can be for them.

I could recommend many, many things, but one specific thing you may want to try is massaging the muscles in her butt. Deeply massage the muscles, working up in force until you are really rubbing them hard. This will take some time, and it may take several sessions.


Sept. 4, '07: BPEL 6.875 inches, EG widest 5.25

Goal: Double digits

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