My girlfriends opinion on my size

The vaginal barrel is actually between 2.5" and 3" on the anterior wall and about 3.5" along the posterior wall . There’s about .5" - 1" in front of that, depending on the size of the labias minora and majora. There’s also a some space in the cul de sac, the size of which also varies due to arousal.

During arousal it will ‘tent’ to as much as twice its size, but that doubling is not uniformly guaranteed. Typically it’s just an expansion of some measure with lots of variation. In essence it mimics the variety of expansion that we see with the penis. Some people just get hard and don’t get that much bigger, some guys really ‘grow’ when aroused.

Have a look: You may be unaware that the vagina of a women who hasn’t had a baby is a mere four inches (8.5 cm) when she’s aroused, although it can lengthen to accommodate a penis up to eight inches long (so long as he enters slowly). This basically means that most knobs will fit snugly, and be able to hit all the right buttons, so stop your fretting.

I like the bit about "most knobs will fit snugly." Well said. Talk about intelligent design.

To the other point.

It’s true that women do not have actual tactile sensation much past the opening of the vagina, and that the major nerve clusters are around the clitoris (primarily) and to some extent the G-spot, but it is not true that women can’t feel anything past the opening as jaysinface420 describes.

They can definitely feel pressure and to some degree heat. Granted it’s not the same degree of feeling past the initial opening, but the feeling that is present is important, nonetheless.

Part of the woman’s pleasure in sex has to do with feeling ‘filled’. This is what drives the saying that girth is more important, because with a wider insertion that sense is increased. And it does matter that this feeling travels ‘all up in there,’ so to speak.

Then again: "most knobs will fit snugly." :leftie:

Could someone please hazard a guess at answering this question.

Will girls feel more pleasure in being stretched horizontally (i.e. the labia being spread apart) than they would being stretched vertically (i.e. from the top wall to the bottom wall).

I know that when they are stretched horizontally, their inner clitoris (like two long wish bone shaped extensions) is is spread apart; does this provide pleasure?

I doubt anyone will be able to factually answer this, but I would appreciate it if someone with experience with the female genital organ ;) could tell me how it is that it stretches, and the stretching capacity in both planes.

Thanks.

We are all so wacked here. Your question of asking for a rating and her answer is so tainted with variables ranging from what she thinks of you, to what she wants, to tell you to how she thinks it will affect your feelings, to how she thinks it will affect your sex life, to if she was pissed at you before, to if she had this problem with another guy, to if her girlfriends warned her about this, to if her brother had a complex about his dick, to ad infinitum….!

You can never justify that kind of answer to a boiled down fact. But trust me. You and the rest of use will pie chart and graph and analyze ourselves to death trying!

In fact, I don’t think I’d rate my dick a “10” unless it was big enough to cause most girls a good amount of pain and have them thinking, “damn, this guy’s dick is TOO big, definitely TOO BIG for me! It’s the biggest dick I’ve ever seen! IT’S THE BIGGEST COCK ON EARTH! MY FRIENDS HAVE TO SEE THIS THING!”

Is that not crazy? I’d be sacrificing better sex for the Ego trip of being “too big.”

You getting her “8” validation is the beginning of the game my friend.

So let’s get that 10.5 x 7.25 and get those girls running for the hills!

:)

Man-of-10,

From everything I’ve ever heard from every girl since I was a child, is that width is the ingredient they REALLY like.

I have even noticed that a dick gets a “big” rating from a girl particularly from width size.

Just think of this, my girl said, “oh yeah, it wasn’t that big. It was just really long.”

See? Big = Thick.

So you are saying “width” being more of a factor than “girth” is the general consensus? What I meant was, what would most girls prefer, 5.5” girth that has a 2”+ width, or a more round 5.5” girth that only has about a 1.7” width?

Obviously the penis with the 2” width will stretch the pussy from right to left more than the other one. But it would also stretch it from top to bottom alot less than the penis with less width (but more “height”/”depth”).

I think Vagabund meant girth.

It’s true,when girls see a girthy cock they gasp in awe whereas if it’s just long and thin then it seems to be a bit of a misnomer to them.Almost as if the long one’s ‘missing’ some of itself.

I’m lucky in that I’m in the girthy camp and am use to that look of ‘awe’ when I 1st get it out and in but I still want more I tells ya, MORE!

Don’t ask questions you don’t want the answer to. We will never learn guys. Whether a compliment is flattering or not, we always need to be the best, biggest, strongest, smartest. Its a doomed existence if we let it be.

I do believe that vagabund meant girth as opposed to width.. Although a large measurement in one would most likely result in a large measurement in the other.

Also, I think that either way the observation is accurate. I’m just short of 8 bpel inches long, but only with 5” girth. The last girl I was with seemed to enjoy it a lot, and insisted that there was something about my dick that was “magic,” and said that “maybe it’s the curve of or something.” She said whatever it was, I was hitting some place special. BUT when my size came up, she only acknowledged me as “average” despite my length being well above average. She couldn’t see past the average girth.

Girth counts.

Mr. Happy, where’d you get those charts? They’re neat. ;)

:head:

Very subtle. :thumbs:

I meant to put the Wikipedia link in there, but I got distracted.

I’ll do it now.

Uhh, are you forgetting that you asked her a rating on how big it is, and not how perfect the size is.

Maybe a 10 is way too big for her taste?

RootCap, is so dead on, on this one. Why in the fuck do you want to know? All you do is torture YOURSELF. There is no correct answer coming from her, plus, it has no bearing on today? Yes, we all have probably been there, mentally. But, 2B4, trust some of us older guys here, and keep it to yourself. Slam it to her like a champ, give great oral and treat her like the prettiest girl on the planet. Trust me, you will be #1 in her mind.

BTW, her mind is where you will “get” her, not her poonanny. I want to get bigger myself. (duh) I even have shared that with my wife. However, to her knowledge, I want a larger unit to give her more pleasure, and me more confidence. (I am on the larger side anyway)

I won’t ask her if I am the biggest. I would rather work everyday at being the BEST.

Lastly, there is an old saying that goes like this: “it is better to say nothing and be thought a fool, then open your mouth and remove all doubt.” Do you get what that means? Don’t ask and don’t tell, when it comes to sex and yours or your partner’s past.

Oh dear, you’ve made iamaru bang his head. This could be serious. I’m not sure if I’ve seen him do that before.

The fact that you ask the question would be uncomfortable in my opnion if I was your girlfriend.
Even if you are veiling it with joking around.

It’s the equivalent of a girlfriend asking “do I look fat in this?” Or, “does this make my butt look big?”

Sometimes, you just don’t know how to answer the question without either pissing someone off or unintentionally hurting someones feelings. You know?