Hey I have a question for you guys who know about this. I recently learned how to orgasm without ejaculating, which as I understand it, is the key ingredient to multiple orgasms. Basically, I get right past the point of no return, stop the stimulation, kegel like crazy, breathe deeply, and (as I read in a few places) try to ‘redirect the energy up the spine.”
After that I continue stimulation and thats when the orgasm occurs, completely dry. First of all, no one’s really documented this very well. Is that how it’s supposed to work?
My main question is this: I heard that by doing this your erection is supposed to stay. For me it doesn’t. Tho the refractory period is much shorter, it still takes a few minutes to get erect again. That means that if I’m having sex, I’d have to stop for a few minutes. How do I remedy this?