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Motivation and some points

Hello guys I’m here for long time , work now on pumping for 30 minutes every day

I want to share with you some problem:

My penis is very small 5 inch in full erect and 4 in girth down the glans and 4.4 in the base.

I’m looking good and I’m not a shy guy but the problem with my penis killed my life. Its change my mind and any kind of situation that include woman’s make me feel sad and not comfortable, all my friends talk about fucking and girls’ most of them got married. My family don’t know about my problem and expect for my wedding or any girlfriend or something but I can’t find any women that want my penis and I have a permute ejaculation . My last girlfriend told me that I don’t know how to fuck..

I’m 30 years old. I can’t share this information with my friends or my family and I’m feel very stress , everyone got married or have a girlfriend and they feel good a bout the sex ’ its not issue for them and for me its all my life. Its always in my mind always. I’m feel confidence only when I’m at home . Its like to be in the jail but the jail is my body, I can’t hear anymore about sex, I became obsessed, sometimes I stop a porn movie and try to compare the pussy hole to my girth size and other sizes and become more depressing. Its can’t be my reality!!

This site is my only hope that my penis grow a little and I know that its work but any picture I see here is BPEL compare, the BPEL is not relevant for sex becuse its the inner penis , you can see the different only if you push the ruler inside your bone. I’m here for 7 years and only a bit of good picture with NBPEL compare. I need something for my hope, something that show me that my penis can became normal.

Sorry for the digging

Thank for all of you friends

Hi there. I have a few points I’d like to share with you.

First off, There are several members on this board with smaller stats than yours, and they’ve made lots of gains that put them at an average, above-average, or even huge size. Just because you’re a little under average (depending on the study, both your length and girth measurements are around 0.5 inches below the mean), doesn’t mean you can’t make substantial improvements. Follow the newbie routine, eat healthy, get lots of sleep, take your rest days, and you WILL see gains.

Secondly, edging will help a ton with your endurance and learning to control your premature ejaculation. As for being a good lover, the best piece of advice I can give you is to pay attention to your partner. Focus on as much of what she’s experiencing as you can. Does her vagina clench your fingers really hard when you finger her a certain way? Do her fingers claw at your back when you’re in a position with lots of pressure on her clit? Does she arch her back when you kiss her in a specific place? Learn these kinds of things about her, and you’ll be so much more successful in your sexual endeavors.

Lastly, BPEL is used for consistency so gains can be accurately measured, because fat-pads can change size, but your pubic bone will always be in the same place. Here’s something to think about: the average unaroused vagina is roughly 2.75-3.25 inches; the aroused vagina is roughly 4.25-4.75 inches. If you’re already 5 inches NBPEL, then your penis is already 0.25 inches longer than the larger average for aroused vaginas. I’ll attach a link just in case you don’t believe me.

Good luck.

P.S. Stop watching porn if that’s making you depressed about your size. The male pornstars you see are there because 1) they have above-average to truly massive penises, and 2) they’re good at maintaining erections for long periods.

http://www.webmd.com/women/features/vagina-size


Pre-PE: BPEL - 5.75", EG - Unknown

6/3/17: FSL - 6.6" 6/12/17: BPEL - 6.4" EG - 5.2" BPFL - 4.9"

Goal: 7" x 5.5"

I am telling you right now the vicious cycle you are going through has to stop.

This is truly more of a mental issue than a size issue.

Your last girlfriend told you the issue.

If I had to prioritize how I would solve the issue it would be.

1. Solve premature ejaculation problems
2. Learn oral skills
3. Learn sex skills
4. Stop dating bitches
5. Work on size

The beauty is you can work on several of these at the same time. They will all help you boost your confidence. The problem is you are so much in your own mind that you are setting yourself up for more premature ejaculation and frustration.

Size will give you more confidence but if you last 30 seconds or less the bitch will still say the exact same thing to you.

From everything that has happened you should have the motivation to get this done. Get a plan of attack going and get this done.

One last thing. Please stop looking at porn for any type of comparison. It is fantasy and not the real world.


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Thank you that’s posts was so inspiration!

You’re in the right place.

Don’t let yourself get discouraged and force yourself to stick to it. The biggest issue I’ve had doing this was sticking to things I didn’t enjoy. It’s the same as with working out for me. I hate push ups. So I bench press. If you don’t like jelqs, power through the newbie routine and find something you’ll look forward to doing.

I’m personally very fond of edging with a cock ring for girth. I used to do a number of the other exercises and really just wound up hating my routine and quit out. The world of PE is huge now, so don’t get discouraged because one exercise sucks butt.


The cock thickens

SexualKungFu, I can’t believe that is the average depth! I figured you had to have misread and that was actually some measurement of circumference or something, but I read the article and sure enough it is depth. I am significantly longer than that, but it feels like much more of me is inside a girl if I am bottoming her out.

bh, I completely agree with that list of priorities. Although if I had a genie and only got one wish I would probably wish for number five… Do as I say not as I do! ;)

You are not going to be good at sex without confidence. High or low confidence may come from your features, health, and abilities and your perception of those, this kind of confidence you can only change by changing our features, health and abilities so this is not always useful. The more important kind of confidence results from your inner strength (everyone has it but may not use it - a life or death situation for example brings it out) and resolve to stay strong in the midst of doubts and fears and is largely a choice. You don’t always have a choice about your fears and doubts, but it’s up to you what to do with them. You can indulge them and let negative thoughts flourish, or you can power through them. Don’t let another human, or thing or thought have that kind of power over you. It’s all between your ears, no matter your weakness in certain areas of life you can be mentally strong. If you feel bad for yourself other people will feel bad for you and think you are weak and it’s not going to do you any favors. If you are happy despite your shortcomings there will be many people that easily overlook those shortcomings. We all have shortcomings, just in different areas.


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Rootsnatty, I know what you mean. The first time I saw that statistic I was confused too. I think what they’re measuring is a baseline arousal size, since I’m basically at 6x5 and have never had an issue with women accommodating my size. The female body is a wonderful thing, hehe.


Pre-PE: BPEL - 5.75", EG - Unknown

6/3/17: FSL - 6.6" 6/12/17: BPEL - 6.4" EG - 5.2" BPFL - 4.9"

Goal: 7" x 5.5"

I see, so maybe as they get more and more aroused past baseline the vaginal canal continues to elongate.

Also, there is that little extra inch pocket you can hit around the outside of the cervix that allows for a little bit deeper penetration. I forget what it’s called, but I bet they were just measuring up to the cervix.

The fornix, that’s what it’s called.

Hi, I think there has been said some really good stuffs, I have had some issues like you with premature ejaculation, I don’t think it has anything to do with technique, but mind. If you feel good about yourself, then it wont happen. It is connected with mind, if you’re scared, then you have no problem with coming in about 30 seconds. It has happened to me before, because I knew about this girl things that I don’t want to. Blah bla. I think you definitely need to find some perceptive girl, who is ” cool” and become comfortable with her. Or maybe, she can be your really good friend, then you can completely trust her, don’t cry about it but tell her someday DO NOT START with your size. but rather, that youre inexperienced and if she want to try it and how is it good for her(if she is not bitch she wont laught about it), tell her your situation, tell her, that you want to try it differently, it wont be about the fuck part at first, but the foreplay, then she can tells you what she like. Maybe you can find this person online, Ive never done this, but I ussually need to connect with my girl to trust her, then the sex is usually good, learn it with your mouth. some educational videos on porn sites before you quit watching them. Connecting with person through vulnerability is the best thing, that I’ve learned. Actually I’ve read one really good book about relations called - models attract women through honesty by Mark Manson. I’ve read some about alpha males, but this one is pretty honest. Don’t expect to stay in that relationship, you can tell her if she wants just to enjoy it sometimes. Build yourself then you can try some normal relation or, she might “fall in love with you” then there is nothin, to talk about. Good luck.

They’re made of the same kind of material as a dick.

Meaning, they can be manipulated to grow.


The cock thickens

SexualKungFu nailed it with the paying attention to your partner. Don’t know how to fuck? I doubt that, but don’t know how to fuck her? That’s another story. Every partner is going to be different in some way, like different things or the same things at different times. Best advice I wish I had got sooner would be to pay attention and adapt. Sure it may take some of the fun out of it for you at the time (if you over think it), but the great feeling of knowing you have completely blown your partners mind carries on a lot longer than the immediate individual pleasure of just pounding away, both in your mind and theirs.


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Originally Posted by rootsnatty
I see, so maybe as they get more and more aroused past baseline the vaginal canal continues to elongate.

Also, there is that little extra inch pocket you can hit around the outside of the cervix that allows for a little bit deeper penetration. I forget what it’s called, but I bet they were just measuring up to the cervix.

That’s why there are ripples (or folds; whatever you wanna call them) in the vaginal walls: to allow for expansion/elongation as needed. Childbirth wouldn’t be feasible if it couldn’t expand more.

I believe the pocket you’re referring to is also called the A-spot. I haven’t really gotten into deeper penetration with any of my past partners, but it’s my understanding that stimulating that particular spot is great for both making her wetter and inducing more vaginal expansion so she can accommodate a larger partner.. Or at least make her feel like you’re bigger if your size isn’t actually that big yet (you’ve seen my stats in my sig and earlier in this thread, so you know I’m right in that average range).


Pre-PE: BPEL - 5.75", EG - Unknown

6/3/17: FSL - 6.6" 6/12/17: BPEL - 6.4" EG - 5.2" BPFL - 4.9"

Goal: 7" x 5.5"

Originally Posted by SexualKungFu
That’s why there are ripples (or folds; whatever you wanna call them) in the vaginal walls: to allow for expansion/elongation as needed. Childbirth wouldn’t be feasible if it couldn’t expand more.

I believe the pocket you’re referring to is also called the A-spot. I haven’t really gotten into deeper penetration with any of my past partners, but it’s my understanding that stimulating that particular spot is great for both making her wetter and inducing more vaginal expansion so she can accommodate a larger partner.. Or at least make her feel like you’re bigger if your size isn’t actually that big yet (you’ve seen my stats in my sig and earlier in this thread, so you know I’m right in that average range).

Well, she says she likes it. I like the feeling too. Bumping into the cervix is no fun if it’s a hard bump, but pushing into that cozy little pocket feels good.

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