Losing my virginity

It may hurt a little for you, don’t worry about it if it does, just gently press it in until you can slide in and out without it causing discomfort to you or her. Massaging her back while simultaneously removing her clothes is good. Continue massaging her entire body as she’s tight, pelvises locked naked next to you in bed. You do not need to be naked, but a state of undress is good - simply getting naked right before the act is fine and can give her a sense of security as she may feel vulnerable naked. Teasing her, focusing on her breasts, between her legs, back and neck with kisses, sucks and firm but gentle massaging is good.

After prolonged teasing get down to fingering her, starting with her clitoris until it is very wet and then entering her, trying to locate the g-spot (pretty easy to be fair, its quite discernible - hard sort of round lump). Using 2 and eventually 3 fingers (but gently) will open her up and allow you to fuck her without pain when for you or her.

Above all like the others have said, don’t worry about anything, just enjoy her body and enjoy the feeling of passion, don’t take any expectations with you just enjoy the ride as it goes along. Its not that big of a deal, in fact its nothing at all once you’ve done it you realise the insignificance of it, it really is nothing as spectacular and earth shattering as you would believe losing your virginity will be like.

GL man, just remember, it’s every time AFTER the first time that is the best (for you AND your lady).

It’ll never get old ;)

What ironhammer has said is perfectly right, so remember what he has said.

SHE is the one that has finally given permission, and this “first time” for her is a “very special gift” that SHE is giving to you. Remember that and be proud that she has chosen you. Concentrate on HER and you should be okay. Remember what ironhammer said, “Make it HER night” and by doing so, it will also be YOUR night. And, a night for both of you to remember always.

Regarding your size, 5.11” is a heck of a lot larger than I am, and it has never, ever, been a problem for me. So, my friend, size should absolutely be NO problem for you if you don’t let it become a problem. So, forget about everything but giving her pleasure.

Go slowly, be gentle, be loving and playful, and you will do okay. Good Luck.

Good luck.

I don’t think he is going to need to be trying to do this and that so precisely at this point. If he is stressing over finding the g-spot and such then it will only make him feel the pressure. I wouldn’t even begin worrying about that kind of stuff until he is far more comfortable sexually with this girl. Just my opinion though.

Right on, buddy!

BTW, gimli, your shortime gains are great! Keep it up.

Ok, thanks again everyone I will try and take your advice and see how I go, ill post another topic when it’s been done to tell you guys how I went.

Thanks again everyone!

The key is foreplay foreplay foreplay.Let the excitement build

Yeah, I don’t really know much about foreplay because I think after I do it for awhile my gf gets bored or tired, one of the two, how do I know that she’s still getting turned on?

I would not get too caught up on making sure you do lots and lots of foreplay. It is best suited for getting your girlfriend excited enough to orgasm more easily during sex. As that should not be your goal for your first time, I think the foreplay should really just be used to make it less painful for her to have sex for the first time. I mean no matter how much of a natural Don Juan you are, you are not going to be able to get her as relaxed as you would like for future lovemaking sessions. This has nothing to do with you, it is just that her mind is going to be solely thinking things like “Holy crap, I’m going to have sex for first time ever.” “How much is this going to hurt?” “Does he love me, should I be doing this with him?”. I really think at this stage (first time ever having sex) kissing her while rubbing her pussy should be quite enough. Just do it for say maybe five minutes, I’d say 10 tops as she is going to begin over thinking the whole thing for sure? Just pay attention to how wet her pussy is really. At the start you will notice that both lips are probably touching each other and it is not wet, later on you will see that the lips begin to separate more easily and you can tell she is wet. Ultimately when your ‘first time’ is over, you will see that you are SUBSTANTIALLY better at say your tenth time then your first. Like literally probably 1000x better. Lastly, I highly recommend you say you love her if you are going to be doing this. It should comfort her quite a bit, and I think she will be greatly disappointed if you didn’t.