Looking for gains as a quadriplegic . . .
I started lurking thunder’s some time after breaking my neck a few years ago. I thought I was resigned to having lousy EQ, but kegel exercises plus a bit of jelqing actually got me to a decent place - fairly normal spontaneous erections, but I still often need to take Cialis for the act itself. I’m posting today because I’ve had issues with erect length.
My core issue, as I see it, relates to the ‘turtling’ we all get in cold weather. The spasms I get from my paralysis exaggerate this pull, and more often than not, but especially when I’m aroused, everything tightens up. I lose about an inch and a half from where I once was, and even worse, my erection is held so tight to my pubic bone that I can’t bend it any further than ~ 80 degrees from my chest. I know a lot of these exercises are designed to loosen and lengthen the suspension ligaments, so my gut feeling is if I can do those I should make good progress in returning to my original length.
The hitch is, both of my arms are pretty weak, and only my left hand is really functional. Jelqing has been less effective because I can’t really alternate between hands, and you can imagine most of the manual exercises suffer similarly. Ideally, I’d like a mostly passive device that will allow me to get a good workout without requiring too much input. I know from reading many threads that there is no easy way to get gains, but I think I may be an exception due to the circumstances above. Does anybody have experience with something similar? Am I totally off the mark? I’d appreciate any feedback or advice, and most importantly, thanks for the tips on getting my erections back in the first place - I owe you guys big.