Long standing Jelqing injury need advice
This is my first post here, and I’m just after some advice from anybody with experience or knowledge in treating this sort of thing.
I injured myself badly while jelqing back in July and I still have not recovered. I did maybe 2-3 flaccid Jelq sessions over 2 weeks (40-80 reps per session) with some other PE in between. I didn’t notice any significant pain during the sessions, and only began to notice something was wrong a couple days after cessation of PE, which I did due to a suspicion that I may be hurting myself. (Too little too late)
Now my penis just feels all wrong and its so depressing. Erections now are difficult to achieve, and while its up which precum oozes out profusely and when the precum tank (or whatever) is drained of its fluids my erection dies, like I’ve already ejaculated ( all within a minute or two) and my pants are sticky with it. I also have acquired some severe (like instantaneous) premature ejaculation. Sexual activity is destroyed in other words. I get dull aches and draining/numb feelings in my penis that varies throughout the day. I also have some pelvic floor tightness which has subsided somewhat over the months. I have tried Viagra which helps it stay up but the PE still renders me basically useless, except perhaps for procreation solely..
My sex drive is almost completely gone also. Life has been turned upside down due to my stupidity. I really wish I’d researched the dangers of PE before rushing into it, I probably would never have done it, or at least treated it with some respect. I was too thrilled by the prospect to stop and consider.. I never would have imagined this situation. It didn’t even hurt.. I have a girl that loves me and refuses to leave me even though I tell her to, which is really the only thing keeping me going.
I went to a mens health physiotherapist who believes I have done damage to the pudendal nerve. This has to be nerve damage of some kind for sure. I read the parasympathetic nervous system is responsible for erections and holds off ejaculation while the sympathetic nerves initiate ejaculation. So I suspect the parasympathetic fibres are damaged. I have most of my sensation still I believe, although stimulation doesn’t feel pleasurable like it did before. I don’t get that nice feeling you get when you press your erection when you wake up in the morning. It just feels all wrong. Man having a working penis is great.
Anyhow my main question for anyone who may know is this. Is there any way to reliably test for nerve damage to the penis? I mean I could go get a referral to a neurologist but I want to know if its worth the time, money and embarrassment before going along with it all. I have heard of EMG’s being not that reliable so I’d just like to hear it from someone who may have done it or knows someone who has..