Limited time for PE

As a newbie, I know that I’m supposed to gradually work up to a more “intense” workout a few months down the road. The problem is, I find myself with limited time. I can find about 20 mins a day to do some stretches and 100 wet jelqs, but that’s about it. If I don’t increase the time, will PE be less effective or not effective at all?

I’m not looking for gains quickly (and I know some people never experience gains at all), and I’ve only been at PE for about 2 1/2 weeks. My wife tells me that I’m wasting my time, but I’m the only guy that she’s ever been with sexually.

Thoughts?

I honestly believe that anyone can make the time to PE, if they want it enough. I don’t see why some people struggle for time. Get up earlier,go to bed later, spend less time watching TV, stuff like that. It all adds up.

Having 3 young kids to spend time with also plays a role.

Believe me, I want nothing more than to see results eventually, no matter how minor. I just know that my time will be limited because of a variety of factors.

You’ll have to arrange it yourself somehow: if you can gain with 20 min./ day, that’s great.

Try it.

And asking your wife what she thinks, or about your chances with PE, isn’t a good idea I think.

20 minutes per day is more than I spend on PE even though I could afford to do more. And I’m not even incorporating stretches, just 15 minutes of wet jelqing. And since I’ve made some gains, I would suggest you spend 15 or 20 minutes a day just as well and see where you are in three months from now. :)

I spend at least 30 minutes each evening doing stretches (10 stretches x 3 minutes at least 1x a day). The easiest time to stretch, for me, is before I go to bed. It’s easy to kill a half hour stretching and it goes by quickly. I’ll jelq after I stretch and try to do that when I wake up as well. If you don’t have a lot of time, you might want to try some BTC’s during the day. I do a lot of driving in between clients and do them just about every day I work as well.

I also have 3 kids, and my wife didn’t believe it works, and her previous partner is bigger than mine.

At the beginning, I spent almost 2 hours reading TP with my wife just to convince her that I should give it a try, after 2 1/2 months and have my initial newbie gain, she believes it.

If you talk to your wife and convince her, believe me, she will surely be a great helper.