Length Size Never Looks Like Ruler Measurement!

I too must say that the ruler is the truth, the mirror allows for too much variation in subjective perception. Happy Growing.

I too must say that the ruler is the truth, the mirror allows for too much variation in subjective perception. Happy Growing.

I agree with all of that but i dont think its as simple as a man has confidence or he does not. There are many areas of life where i display extreme confidence or even arrogance. I feel supremely confident in certain things that make for a great relationship. However i dont feel confidence when it comes to pulling my dick out for the first time on some new woman. I dont feel ashamed or anything either it has never stopped me from getting any but i always felt average and so my attitude reflected that. I remember one girl who was the hottest girl i have ever been with loved to talk about my dick. She would say how good looking it was or how it fit her so perfect etc. First few times it was nice but after a while it got annoying because i never saw it that way and it made me feel like she was just saying it for my benefit. If i had felt above average i would have just believed it.

I am not naive enough to think you or titlest must have the confidence of james bond just because you got a big dick but im sure when it comes time for it to do its thing you arent exactly gun shy about it either lol. If i never knew about PE life would have been just fine and i would be ok with average. But knowing now that i can do something to make myself better is a confidence booster just by itself. So thank you to you and titlest and the other who contribute so much on here.

I was gunshy about my penis for many years, all the way up till last year. I’m very confident on a gun range, speaking on topics I know much about. But my penis doesn’t create this confidence. The faith in myself what created the person that is strong enough to be confident.

However, you will believe what you will. Your journey and mine are not going to be the same. They cannot be. Not yours, not Jason, not anyone else’s. I hope that you find your confidence, in whatever context, with the method of your choice.

Really at 9” you still felt self conscious about your dick? I am not doubting you i just dont get how that can be when you know 99.999% of the time it is the largest that person has or will ever see. I might be totally wrong about this but i am 6.5x5 right now and feel so so about it but i think if i get to my goal which is 8x5.7 i would be dying to show every woman even remotely interested in seeing it lmao. Hopefully some day I am able to see for myself. Come to think of it thats probably why you excelled at growing it so. The most driven tend to be the best performers in any arena.

You are dead right about me being driven. I was harried by the ghosts of inadequacy far into my 8” days. Far, far and away. I write about it in my Reflections log, some of the darker days and how I used to feel. It really was rough, even if I can’t convey it to you.

I am not self-conscious now. I stopped being self-conscious about a year and a half or so ago. But, I was most of the size I am now at that time and still unhappy. That is what I’m trying to say. How you feel in your head just isn’t going to change, regardless of what happens to you or what you can do or have done. A process has to happen before your mentality and mindset about yourself will change.

I actually kept waiting to wake up and say “I have a huge dick, I’m confident now!” and it never happened. It was more complex than that and I actually thought it wasn’t and I would just up and change. It just ain’t work that way. Not for me.

+1

Well said!

I grew almost 2 inches and over an inch in girth and my confidence went through the roof!!! My dick was the only thing I was insecure about. I always thought I was good looking and in good shape and have a good personality so PE was the last piece i needed. My dick has really rounded out my life.

But it still doesn’t look big enough from all angles but i know it is from the ruler and the female responses.

In the end it’s about loving yourself, as if you can’t love your self and who you are, no dick size can make up for that inner turmoil.

The thing is…I’m not unpleased with my cock by any means. I know it’s not huge but I know it’s not small either. I was with someone before who said I was their smallest - it was a one time random hookup. That stuck with me for awhile although I knew back then that my dick was skinny at 4.5” eg. That was years and years ago. Now that I had gotten to 5” eg I definitely feel more confident. I mean who was that guy to tell me that anyways? It hurt but his snide remark shouldn’t encompass how I feel about myself. I’ve learned to like my dick but I will say the growth has made me feel like that guy’s comment doesn’t apply anymore as I’m thicker, albeit not really thick by fat cock standards. My FWB compliments my dick a ton so that has helped.

However there’s still a part of me that wants to fulfill something inside of ME by doing PE and having a goal of 8x6 bpelxeg. Although with my starting size of 6.5x4.5 I don’t know if that’s necessarily possible. Perhaps subconsciously I feel like my dick is still average and my ego or self conscious wants to be more towards large. My FWB has had a dick that was like really small supposedly so I know I’m not her smallest but knowing she’s had a huge one might be in the back of my mind subconsciously. But I ultimately need to do PE for ME and not because of some comments that might have been made in the past!

If you know that, you have grown far more than inches of cock.

It is more than possible. It has been done, exceeded in fact by multiple men. The question becomes what kind of time, devotion and raw effort are you willing to put in?

Thanks TG

Yes I must have the mindset that 8x6 IS possible! 6.5x4.5” to 8x6 IS possible if I put in the effort and time and commitment. I think visualization will really help too!

I really like Danny D’s cock in porn as I’d live to aspire to that! That’s a bit bigger than 8x6 I’m guessing but if I aspire to a bigger cock that’s huge, even if I can’t grow to THAT size, the size I can reach will be large!

I did it. The key is consistency and staying motivated even when you lose your way other hurt. Re-learning that with an injury today.

Once I manage to achieve my PE goals, I am expecting same thing to happen to me. As you said, there is that one last piece of puzzle that I am missing, which I strongly believe will have very big and positive effect on every other segment of my life.

I did read somewhere something like this:
“Do not expect growing a bigger dick will make your life perfect, it will not…”
But we are all different, and I believe it will round my life, like you said.

Congratulations on your gains, good luck in the future as well !

Some people need a haircut to feel happy, some might need to lose weight, some might need a larger cock.

Some might get everything they ask for or want, and still not be happy.

Some might not get or need anything they would like, and still be happy.

We are all different, and everyone’s needs or mentality, is different.

It all starts from the source, the mind. Ever wonder why millionaires commit suicide? Or why a homeless man lives with a genuine smile?
Loving yourself is key, it is in fact the “key” to obtaining true happiness.

What’s people’s thoughts re the enjoyment of the journey in itself.

The feeling that you’re improving yourself in some way, either for your benefit (mirror etc.) or for the benefit of your partner.