Length Size Never Looks Like Ruler Measurement!

No doubt Blindpew - hadn’t thought about that in a long time.

Pictures. Pictures. Pictures. (Wish I’d taken some of this phenomena!).

I can still vividly recall the first time I measured myself with “the roll” as a teen and barely reached the end and particularly remember the dejection I felt - like, how is that ever gonna please a woman. Again, post PE was shocked when regardless of what I knew the ruler said, I tried this to find my entire head popping out the end.

Just remember most of those angles you see in pornos with the huge 8” dicks on camera are all camera work , they arnt actual as big as you think

Remember the ruler rules. Forget the mirror or porn angles of a dick that will never be measured.

That said…

Learn how to be confident no matter what size your are.

The one of the biggest confidence boosts for me has been the bigger flaccid hang.

The ruler rules but it is a great feeling to have to decide which leg to put the old boy down!

+1

Easier said than done but with some of the voices in my head being quieted by the modest gains my ruler says I’ve had, I’m starting to be able to hear this and work it into my being. For all the satisfaction & fun that growing your dick brings, we are so much more than our dick size despite what our idiotic, immature, surface cultures say. Great words to live by Titlest.

Lol its always the big guys saying be confident in what you have. Like the rich guys saying money isnt everything lmao. Its true but its also hard to be confident when you dont have it.

I thought I was inferior for a long time. Confidence doesn’t come from size. Based on size I should have been the most confident, but I wasn’t. It took me a very long time to get me. That confidence didn’t come from the ruler.

Yes and that is one thing for sure to have a huge cock and be insecure about it is something to overcome for sure. But for example i am plenty confident in myself about many things including being able to please my partner but im not confident in having a big dick because i simply dont have one. When i get one i will definitely be confident in it but right now its average and i feel average about it.

Well Johngalt made a good point there, it is easier said than done.

Titleist, it all depends where our source of lack of confidence is. For me personally, penis size is the major issue, and during all these years I felt helpless regarding that matter. ThundersPlace changed that and I do feel better even at my very beginnings. My goal is not to be huge, or to be bigger than all others, my goal is simply to have a decent size to boost my selfconfidence and to truly enjoy sex and women without doubting in my abilities to leave woman thoroughly satisfied. So for me, confidence does come with a size, I am pretty sure I got other fields covered. For you or somebody else, confidence may come from some other things, we are all different.

Titleist is just saying ‘size isn’t easy street by definition’ because he dealt with things, regardless of his very large size. I have also dealt with more than my fair share and I speak often on the mentality I used to have and how punishing it was in my Reflections log. Being big doesn’t come with perks. Your mentality has to change before you experience any perk of the self, penis size or any other endowment or ability included.

Hey TG, you will have to forgive me but I am afraid I cannot understand to the best of my knowledge what are you saying, if you can say that simplified, I am European so I am not familiar with some of the terms used on english.

I wanted to say that we cannot disregard fact that penis size plays a really big role when it comes to men’s confidence, as said before, it is more important to us than to woman. We do trouble ourselves too much about penis size, but it is how it is. I am well aware that there are much more important things in life and relationship, but even we are brilliant in all other fields and we are making our woman happy in every possible way, day after the day, we will not be truly satisfied as long as we have that problem with penis size inside our heads, true, maybe there is no reason for us to feel that way, but the feeling exist anyway. I am sure I am not the only one who thinks in that way.

This is my opinion. I will simplify it however.

No matter how big your penis becomes, or how big it was in the beginning, it will not give you confidence by itself. Many men here think that Titleist or myself should automatically be confident because of the size of our penises. There are many reasons for a man to not be confident and they all start inside his mind.

My post merely said “If you cannot have the mind to love and appreciate yourself, no matter how awesome you are…you will never feel awesome or confident.” That is the simplified version of what I mean.

You pose that your penis size getting bigger will fix how you feel about yourself. I pose that it will not, because my size increased dramatically over the years and I did not feel better about myself until I learned how to understand and love myself.

These are my thoughts.

Thanks for making it easier for me to understand.

I understand what do you want to say and I do respect the way you think, but I will disagree with you about this, I do believe getting bigger will have great and positive impact in my life and generally in my well being, I am sure in that. Maybe I am wrong, maybe it will not, in that case I would be happy one day to let you know that you were right, lets see.

What if I tell you that at this point my penis size is something that concerns me the most ? What if I tell you that I have been dealing with much much more important and serious (and I am aware that they are certainly more important) things in my life but for none of them I did not feel this bad how I feel about this ? Will it be possible for you to accept that this one thing might be a trigger for me to start truly enjoying all the other things life have to offer ? Trust me, I think it will.

I agree pretty much with all you are saying, our mind is so powerfull weapon, and the way we think, creates the life we live. We sure need to learn to love and accept ourselves the way we are, but that would be easier with bigger penis.

Disregarding our different opinions, I anyway do have big respect for everything you are saying, and will gladly accept and learn from your thoughts, but in my case, I strongly stay behind my words.

Report back. You’ll find that a big penis will not change much in your life. I grew two inches and it did nothing for my confidence. Hopefully you’re different.

If I grow 2 inches, I will be there where you were before those 2 inches, which means at that point, for you, there were some other things that troubles your mind and yours lack of confidence is caused by something else, not the penis size, therefore it means with increased penis size you will not increase you confidence, cause penis size is not source of yours lack of confidence. For me, I believe it will.

That is the way I think and way I feel right now, however I will leave some space opened for case that both you and TG are right, you have been here before, so you know what are you talking about. It may take time, but I will remember to report back one day, I hope aswell it will affect me in expected manner.