Legitimate girth concern
I’m sure like many folks here, a particular incident drove me to try PE. Something happened to motivate me, but I’m not sure I can look at it through an objective lens, so I want the input of others.
I had a sexual experience with a girl a few weeks ago. When she first saw my penis, she said “mazel tov!” insinuating I was well-endowed. However, after I complained that she was being a little rough with the hand-job, we started talking about past experiences, and how she thought that’s what guys liked. Then she conjectured that maybe it was because I was “built differently.” After pressing her about it a little bit, she admitted that the few guys she had been with in the past, while shorter, had wider penises. You always hear about how girth is more important, so this was a shot to the ego, to say the least. So I decided to do something about it, if possible.
I figured given her sample size of 3 previous guys, coming in 4th must mean I’m narrow. Unfortunately, that’s hard for me to determine, because averages for girth are so hard to find and vary quite a bit in terms of results and measuring methodology. In short, I have no idea what I have. Anyway, my measurements are as follows:
4.75 flaccid (grower status), 7.8 bone-pressed length, 5.25 girth at the base, and 4.85 girth mid-shaft.
It seems that my length is above average, while my girth is, well - I have no idea. Anecdotal evidence would suggest below average, statistics would suggest perhaps right around average.
My question is whether I should be concerned about my girth, and whether I can really change it significantly and safely. The warning to newbies about permanent injury is very sobering, and I know a lot of guys would kill to have a penis my size. Am I in the “if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it” kind of situation, or is it skinny enough to be concerned?
Thanks for any advice.