Lasting Longer

Hey follow newbies,

I have a lot to learn.. I really want to increase my size (currently 6” long and 5.5” girth), but mostly want to learn how to last longer before I cum. My wife isn’t complaining (luckily she cums quickly, too), but I would feel more like a man if I could last longer and please her even more. Do any of you newbies have suggestions? I’ve read a lot about edging, but I have no self-control.

I think you’ve already said what you need “self-control.” Once you get a bit of that, things like edging will start working wonders for you in bed, it did for me =)

Also, with edging you’ll start to know what things really get your arousal rate up, basically getting to know your own body and penis. Edging has so many wonderful effects, I highly recommend it.

Ditto.

Yep, tnatna’s right. You’ve got to start learning to understand your ‘other’ brain’s thinking. Making your penis realize it can’t have it’s candy so quick and that you’re also trying to satisfy your partner, actually more than yourself sometimes. Edging has worked great for me as well as the newbie jelqing routines. I’ve always been a quick cummer, at least for the last 30+ years. But now with continued jelqing and edging it’s definitely paying off. I’ve also found that too much foreplay sometimes can make it damn near impossible for me to last. A quick insertion and slow and steady strokes works good for us quite often. I’m easily at the 30 minute range now which is about 29 minutes longer than most of my life!! Do not give up! It’s doable man.

Read this for starters. Learn what is happening when you do cum then you can begin to learn how to manipulate the process.

Well, I am no newbie but I think you will at least think about my suggestion.

What really helped for me was the book “The multi orgasmic man”. I was blessed with the ability to ejaculate 2 to 3 times during sex and enlarge the time I had sex to 20-30 minutes. Last week I fucked a girl 2 hours in which I orgasmed 8 times without a drip of sperm. Aside from that my health has increased because I am less tired now.

Buy the book and do a search for edging and you will be able to keep going for hours.

Just start doing kegels every day, I do like a 100 reps 5 seconds on 5 off and I feel I have much better control than I used to have.

While I don’t know anything about PE at the moment, I do know first hand how much Kegel exercises can help when it comes to controlling sexual sensation and ejaculation. For myself, I have increased excitation when flexed.. As do many men from what I am told. Knowing when to let off the PC muscles during sex (and having the control to do so) is the one thing more than any other that allows me to continue thrusting while edging.

Those are just my 2c

Cheers,
Mike

Whilst I agree that edging is a sound solution I should also consider Bird 2’s advice about thinking in terms in firing off two volleys!!

I used to have a gf who loved to drink from the cock fountain. This would be very quick and I mean QUICk. Then we’d settle down to business.

Man, Bird2, you are my hero! You actually went for 2 hours and had 8 orgasms! I can’t imagine. And,where can I get a copy of the book you mentioned.

I really do want to learn and be better in bed.I just love to shoot my load so as soon as I have that sensation, I can’t hold back. I would love to be able to last as long as some of you guys say you can. I’d feel like a big stud if I could go for 30 minutes!

Welcome Aboard Rromine! You have found a great resource in Thunders.

Understanding control is possible is the first step. Then learning the techniques that others have proven successful becomes much easier. Techniques such as edging, nudging, and kegels all work well. You will improve the more you practice.

Thanks mate, you never can get enough of this kind of reactions

Lol.. I have extended my sexual lasting time w/ edging. I masturbate until I am almost ready to come, then I clamp down my kegel muscle and it prevents all but a few drops of come from escaping.. A few seconds to absorb the tremendous feeling, perhaps me taking my cock out and pounding my girls clit like a club(I do that because porn stars to it, I think they are just trying not to come too quick, lol) and then I am back in there doing my thing.

Before I did this.. Ouch.. W/ a condom I would last about 7 mins, w/o.. Jeeze, embarrassing but true maybe.3 mins? I’m such a sex crazed guy that it was always like, “OMG OMG OMG I’m a wet pussy of some hot chick!! Damn I am gonna cum, nooooooooooooooo!”

NOW I go for 15-25 mins w/ pride!

I’m not sure how old you are or how long you been married but me, 29 and been married for 8 years, I have a hard time coming at all allot of times. But when I was 21 and younger I couldn’t last more than 6 or 7 minutes tops. It may be the time or just the large amount of porn that has sort of desensitized me but I think it’s the fact I used to try and visualize my Mother in Law naked and that worked for me.

With edging, when do you finally let the load go? That day? the next day?

What affect does the built up cum that hasn’t been blown have on your next PE session, if any?

They are 2 things I would like to know. I would also like to know if this helps by simply increasing your ability of feeling pleasure without blowing, or if it can give you actual control, when you want to blow, how long you want to go for etc.

I never really last that long also come to think of it, if you take away precious foreplay time!