Keep training that BC muscle and before long you will be able to cinch off any orgasm even when you think you are past the point of no return. Usually, for me if I wait untill right before orgasm and then flex and squeeze real hard I will have an orgasm but not ejaculate! And the great part is I stay hard and can keep going for a lot longer then. This does take quite a bit of training with kegels though.
I stopped myself from coming after the point of no-return, but I didn’t have an orgasm. This was after a really long edging session, and I didn’t come afterwards. I had such terrible blue balls even after a long hot shower. How to avoid this when I’m with a girl? What do you have to do to have a non-ejaculation orgasm?