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Keeping it Hard

I had a make out buddy a few months back and we would be getting all hot and heavy. but if there was any pause in our activity(phone call or other interruption) my erection would go away. Also when the would occur i would almost always be leaking some pre-cum. She couldn’t believe that it could go away that quickly. I’m only 24, is this a problem for any one else? Particularly as young as i am? Is this be something i should even be worrying about? if so what can i do to improve in this matter?


Start 6/13/08 NBPEL = 5 EG=5.25 NBPFL=3.5 FG=4.5 Now 8/5/08 NBPEL = 5.5 EG=5.25 NBPFL=4 FG=4.75Goal NBPEL=7 EG=5.5 NBPFL=5 FG=4.75

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Thunder, what was wrong with my post? I just skimmed through the guidelines link and am not sure what I did wrong. Was it that not every single I is capitalized? I have a broken thumb at the moment and a huge cast so typing is pretty difficult for me.


Start 6/13/08 NBPEL = 5 EG=5.25 NBPFL=3.5 FG=4.5 Now 8/5/08 NBPEL = 5.5 EG=5.25 NBPFL=4 FG=4.75Goal NBPEL=7 EG=5.5 NBPFL=5 FG=4.75

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Tom, I think its probably the small “i” and not using a capital letter in one of your sentences. I know it seems trivial and I certainly understand what you were saying, but from what I gathered in this forum, people from other countries may have difficulty understanding what you’re trying to articulate.

Also, this sentence didn’t make any sense:

“Also when the would occur i would almost always be leaking some pre-cum.”

I think I meant to say “Also when that would occur I would almost always be leaking some pre-cum” that referring to having an erection that would go away when there was an sort or break in making out. I hope that clarifies it Siva.


Start 6/13/08 NBPEL = 5 EG=5.25 NBPFL=3.5 FG=4.5 Now 8/5/08 NBPEL = 5.5 EG=5.25 NBPFL=4 FG=4.75Goal NBPEL=7 EG=5.5 NBPFL=5 FG=4.75

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Originally Posted by tombaldwin

I have a broken thumb at the moment and a huge cast so typing is pretty difficult for me.

It probably limits your PE options as well.


For Lampwick, becoming hung like a donkey was the result of a total commitment.

Ya, I’m pretty much doing nothing, trying some fowfers a bit. Privacy has become the bigger issue for me in the past few months, moved in with some family because of some financial stuff and they’re kind of nosey. No Rice sock for me that’s for sure.


Start 6/13/08 NBPEL = 5 EG=5.25 NBPFL=3.5 FG=4.5 Now 8/5/08 NBPEL = 5.5 EG=5.25 NBPFL=4 FG=4.75Goal NBPEL=7 EG=5.5 NBPFL=5 FG=4.75

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Thanks for the clarification, Tom.

Regarding the rice sock… you can pretend that you have a chronic hip or lower back muscle injury that you are using the rice sock for. That’s what I tell my wife.

True, I had though about doing that, but no one in my family even knocks they just barge in. If I lock the door they kinda freak out. I may try this approach once my sibling is away for school.


Start 6/13/08 NBPEL = 5 EG=5.25 NBPFL=3.5 FG=4.5 Now 8/5/08 NBPEL = 5.5 EG=5.25 NBPFL=4 FG=4.75Goal NBPEL=7 EG=5.5 NBPFL=5 FG=4.75

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Hey Tom, I actually have the same problem also, thinking during any passion or actually in general will kill your erection, especially if your thinking “please don’t go limp please don’t get limp” (it will get limp). You have to focus on things that turn you on about her or what she’s doing to you, or think about another woman if you have to. The best way to keep up an erection is either A. Ask her to do something that keeps you going, such as dirty talk or B. Some form of physical contact that you may do during masturbation to keep it up.

On the pre-cum, it happens, especially if you prolong sexual activity, chances will increase on the pre-ejaculation but should not affect your erection state until you’ve actually released or you destroy your mental ability thinking you won’t erect again. I hear working out your PC muscle will rectify that, unfortunately I put very little time to kegeling so I could not verify this information. Your best bet to keep it going without actually cumming too is to focus on the passion and how badly your gonna “destroy that bed”. I try not spending so much time going through the foreplay situation unless I’m really into it.

#1 thing to remember is to NOT THINK ABOUT YOUR ERECTION STATE IT WILL RUIN IT, FOCUS ON THE PASSION

deifi, I never really thought about my erection state before. It wasnt until she pointed it out that she thought it was odd that I even thought about it.

I think Koapu may have nailed it with his response earlier in this thread.


Start 6/13/08 NBPEL = 5 EG=5.25 NBPFL=3.5 FG=4.5 Now 8/5/08 NBPEL = 5.5 EG=5.25 NBPFL=4 FG=4.75Goal NBPEL=7 EG=5.5 NBPFL=5 FG=4.75

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