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Just Starting, VERY motivated

Just Starting, VERY motivated

Hey Y’all.

Ever since I was a little boy, I always wanted a family. I got that now, down quite a broken road.. Everything OUTSIDE the bedroom is fantastic. My wife is a super mom, great business partner, very, very intelligent, and holds to her integrity and honor like no one I’ve ever met. She’s got high standards (but I still can’t figure out WHY she married me?), and she holds herself to them even harder than she holds others to them.. She’s a gem.. (And yes, she’s one hot momma!)

Except for sex. It’s boring, straitlaced, “Are you done yet?” kind of stuff. Once. Maybe twice a month.

She’s not into kinky stuff anymore, seems it’s gotten to her conscience, I guess.. So all of my “backups” I always used to cover for having a small penis can’t be used anymore. Anyway, she has been having trouble with climaxing. Given avid personal study of the emotional and anatomical makeup and function of the female human, I’ve cleaned up all other aspects of life where I was ‘dropping the ball’ except for one thing: She wants a vaginal orgasm. I KNEW when she said that it was because I have a small member. It’s been a while since I measured it, but it’s somewhere around 5” NBPEL I have no idea about girth, but I think I’m on the skinny side. Manual stimulation only gets her Urethral Sponge slightly engorged, and then she feels like she has to pee for the next week and a half.

Anyway, besides being able to give her what she wants, I’ve always wanted a huge penis. I didn’t know it was possible until I found TP. I’ve read and read and read and have been trying to be consistent at what I can get away with. We don’t have much privacy, we live in a very small cabin with 3 little ones under the age of 8. I am already noticing a difference. I was able to go for a long, long time the other night without ejaculating. Which, after the past 5 years of “Hurry up” I thought was a major accomplishment. I used to hurry. I could cum in about 15 seconds. Less if I really wanted. I must have gone for 10 minutes or more. She made me stop because she had to pee and when she came back, she was like “ok, hurry up” and I said, “Nah.. I lost my momentum.” I read about not climaxing on one of the threads here, and decided that was a good time to give it a shot. OMG! I felt like a new man! Happy, on an even keel.. Never felt like that before. I was not as uncomfortable as I though I would be.

I will post more in a little. My service truck just stalled.. Gotta see what’s wrong with it!

Welcome to the forum, astro. Your wife sounds like a keeper. Have you told her what you’ve told us? Does she know how you feel about her? If I may, it sounds as though better communication with your wife might be in order. Let her know, in a non-confrontational-non-demanding way what you want or need form your physical relationship. Then, conscientiously try to find out what she really wants/needs. A resolution won’t happen instantly, but you’ll be on your way to a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.

RE: PE. What are you doing? Are you doing the newbie routine? It can definitely be difficult with little or no privacy, but be patient and creative. It can happen

Good luck and keep us posted.

:_pump: :donatecar

If you don’t have much privacy and time, you could try breaking your session in to many shor session, like this fellow

2-inch Growth Comparative Pictures

From my experience, when a woman is turned on enough and feels like she has to “pee” — that’s the orgasm she’s looking for. I convinced a few girls to let that feeling go and just relax and next thing you know i had them squirting multiple times. Don’t give up on the sex life. Keep working on your PE and before you know it you’ll have your wife begging for sex.

Welcome to the PE game, hopefully you get what you’re looking for.

Start: 6.4 x 5.1

Current: 6.5 x 5.5

Long Term: 8x6

Welcome to the forum bro. :) Take some starting measurements and start a progress thread, it helps greatly.

PE Goal: 7.5" NBP x 5.8" MSG

Fantastic advice, Gentlemen! Thanks for the warm welcome..

Yes, I am sticking close to the newbie routine, as close as I can anyway!

Communication has always been an issue. We are working on that though. She is dealing with Sexual Aversion, and a big part of fixing that is me basically pretending that we can’t, won’t, don’t and will never again even kiss, never mind have sex, until SHE is in the mood. Now, I understand aversion, but all the “acts” that she attributes the aversion to, SHE LOVED! I was not aware that these things bothered her. If she said, No, I would stop whatever I was trying to do.. Anyway, so talking about sex is very.. Umm.. Dangerous.. I guess is the right word. So as time went on, I did ‘stuff’ (cunnilingus, mainly) as the aversion built.

About a week ago, I came flat out and told her that I was no longer interested in having sex with her, because I was very bitter about the whole situation. It’s funny, when they think they are losing control, women kind of change.. Anyway.. She is an “Actions Speak Louder Than Words” kind of person. So I think I’m going to let the results make an impression before I tell her that I am exercising my penis. I’ve alluded to it before, but barely got more than an eye roll.

I have actually been trying to get a membership to TP for about a year. I’m thrilled that I actually got a membership! I’m not one to push the limits with things I hold valuable, so guys, if I’m outa line on anything, let me know!

I was wondering, I gain muscle like crazy! I am a mountain biking enthusiast, and although I NEVER have the time, it’s the one thing that I can do with extreme drive, and I push myself way too hard, but when I ride, I gain muscle like.. Like heck, I don’t know. My skin will feel tight on my legs. The last season I rode, I didn’t do vitamins, protein shakes, or anything and gained muscle like crazy.

So, is there a correlation between PE gains and muscle gain? The metabolic ability, is what I mean. I know that what I put in to PE is what I’ll get out of PE.

A bit scatter-brained at the moment, just got the service truck fixed, where I happened to be broke down at a McDonald’s, it’s lunch time, and I’ve been on the road since 3:30am. I need to go find real healthy food for lunch. BECAUSE I’m thinning the fat pad too. I’m 6’, 220lbs. I do have a porky torso.

As far as nutrition, I take

1. 8000+ mg of Vitamin C (when I do this, I DO NOT GET SICK. Ever.)
2. “Life’s Fortune” multi-vitamin
3. 50mg Zinc
4. 600 mg Vitamin E
5. 1200 mg Lecithin
6. Protein shake at least once a day. (Body Fortress)
7. Trying to drink as much water as possible
8. If I can’t pronounce ALL of the ingredients in something, I don’t eat it.

Ok, truck’s fixed. Gotta hit the road again. Thanks again everyone! I’m stoked to be on TP!

Welcome to Thunder’s Place.

It’s sounds like your sex life is in jeopardy - as you and your wife both expect very little from sex. As clgp7 said, you need to have open and honest communication with your wife about your sex life. Talk about your wants and needs, and encourage her to share hers. I think many times women, in an effort to spare the feelings of the man they care about, clam up about their sexual frustrations.

IF your dick is indeed too small (and that’s a big if), it’s only a part of the problem. The least part in fact. Remember that women need psychological as well as physical stimulation. In fact, a book I’m reading now called The Sex God Method goes as far as to suggest that the psychological stimulation is even more important than the physical. You may want to google that book and buy it. I’m not done reading it yet, but I think it’s good so far.

I really have little doubt that with your current penis size you are physically able to please your wife. So while trying to improve your member is good, don’t attribute your sex problems to your penis size. Furthermore, don’t feel like getting a bigger member will necessarily fix those problems.

It sounds to me like you need to man-up and take charge sexually.

There’s a lot I could probably say, but I don’t want to make too many assumptions. First thing’s first - talk with your wife.


I’m not sure what you were saying re your wife’s Sexual Aversion.

I hope you looked at the thread that marinera suggested in his post. It is golden.

So far in my reading on this forum, no-one has made a link between PE gain potential and the muscle gain potential - if that’s what you were asking. Anyway you sound like you’re in good health, so there’s no reason why you shouldn’t see good gains over time.

Oh last thing, read sparkyx’s EQ thread, if you haven’t already.

Originally Posted by astro35

I have actually been trying to get a membership to TP for about a year. I’m thrilled that I actually got a membership!

Yeah, I tried on and off for quite a few years. I always got the message that no new members were being accepted.

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