Just got caught by my parents

My mum is less traditional than my dad. But shexsais she doesn’t need to know about everything. She doesn’t want to.

I tell them I smoke weed once in a while and when going to Holland I eat mushrooms. Lol. When I go out with girls I sometimes lie and say I go out with friends and sleep at their place. I don’t think it is necessary to explain that you have sex with a random girl. I gotta live with them, so the less taboos the better. But of course there’s still some intimacy.

One thing . don’t tell your son about PE. It is not necessary and can be frustrating and cause your anxiety. It has been 3 months I don’t gain stretching 1h a day and it is depressing…. Fortunately I got other things in life that makes me happy. But I wouldn’t introduce anybody to thus man. If he asks then do it.

About telling to the girls… I usually go out with foreigner girls that are far away from my social world. So I ask them about if the sex is good and the size is good.

Most girls don’t like talking about it, they feel sexually used. They say it isn’t nice talking about, it just happens and it is nice. It is not worth the hussle to think about it. I gotta say lately I’ve been going out with very well brought up girls. It seems that is so much better being a good listener and being dinamic… Every day I think size matters less and less but I want it bigger.

Xtendeddick, could you remind me how you gained? Was it you who gained well with extended after having tried manuals?

I gained about 0.5” of newbie gains from stretching and jelqing. After that I switched over to an extender and gained another 0.5”+. My gaines have always come in 3 to 4 month periods of consistent PE. I’ve been in the PE community for years, but only consistently did PE for 2 periods of my life and gained.

I am back at PE again and using an extender. Three things I am noticing so far which I think are critical for gaining, besides consistency:

1. Proper jelqing
2. Heat
3. Never let your penis turtle (heal in a shriveled state, kepp your penis stretched as much as possible)

Let me know if you have anymore questions and be sure to check out my thread.

Why you stopped the newbie and did you complement the extender with anything? Did you take a decon break between manuals and extender?

Do you think if you had used the extender from the beginning with the newbie you would have gained more by now?

After I achieved my goals I was satisfied and it is hard trying to stay consistent with PE and every day life. Then after awhile, I wanted more length so I would start back. Due to time, I started looking for a device that would do most of the work for me. That’s when I found out about extenders.

With the extender, I always jelq and do manual stretches. I did do a decon break and I always tried to make sure I cemented my gains.

I think if I would have done the extender in the beginning with the newbie routine I might have hurt myself, been too aggressive, and not have known how much pressure is too much pressure. I think the newbie routine is a good way for your to learn about your penis and pressure, how much, how often.

I think I will have a similar path. over a year with loads of manuals then extender + manuals. I dont think I will take a decon break, vaccum hanger will be an option to I think afterwards.

You are so lucky you gained first with manuals and then with the combiinaton of both.

What manual routine did you do first and then what manual routine did you do while you were complementing with the extender?

My manual routine consisted of a warm up, manual stretches, and jelqing. I would warm up and stretch in all directions before or after a shower and then jelq about 150 strokes. Throughout the day, every time I used the restroom I would either jelq about 25 times or do 2 -3 manual stretches for 30 seconds each. Before bed I would do about 150 more wet jelqs.

With the extender, I mainly warmed up and jelqed. I would warm up, then put on the extender and wear it for 5 - 8 hours a day. Before bed I would usually do anywhere between 150 and 300 jelqs depending on my EQ. Not consistently, but every now and again I used Monkeybars extender device for A- and V-stretches while extending at the same time.

Nice. I also ordered the v attachment device. So you’d stretch max for 20 min ?

If you are doing manuals now and have not gained, I would suggest doing three things before you jump into an extender:

1. A-stretches (manually) hold for 1 minute, start with like 3 for 1 minute then work your way up to whatever you think your penis can handle
2. V-stretches (manually) hold for 1 minute, again start with like 3 for 1 minute then work your way up to whatever you think your penis can handle
3. O-squeezes: get your penis rock hard, then squeeze the base as hard as you can making a circle (your thumb and index finger should meet) hold this squeeze for 30 seconds in the beginning and work your way up

With manuals, I think I did 3 days on and 1 day off with a morning and night routine. After a month and after I measure, then I make adjustments to either how long I hold the squeeze/stretch or how many times I do the exercise in one routine. During the 3rd month, I always rotated a manual stretch, jelq, or squeeze each time I went to the bathroom and still did my morning and night routine.

I always progressively increased either time or the number of times I did an exercise so my penis wouldn’t immediately get used to the exercise or tension. If each month you are gaining either BPFSL or BPEL, then I would stick with the manual exercises. I would only change over to an extender after you stop gaining from manual exercises.

Also, you will then have an idea if the A- and V-stretches worked as well as the squeezes and these are the exercises you need to incorporate into whatever PE routine you do.

thanks man, I havre tried both 3 things, i am currntly doing a few V stretchea adn a bit more Astretches doing kegles.

I will soon get the vacextender. Is it a good one? should i take a decon break before using it… I am not gaining from manuals anymore and it has been so long….

I think the newer version of the VacExtender is a better quality than the older versions.

No, I don’t think a decon break is necessary.

My mom found my bathmate and asked me what that thing was :p

I said something like: eh it’s a penis pump, it’s good for circulation, expands the tissue, healthy..
I could see her thinking about it and then she said ok.

What it really is to me though, is one of many tools to creating a massive schloong, But I figured she wouldn’t quite be so understanding if I put it like that.
She especially wouldn’t be if she knew about my hanger, that thing look like a torture device.

My dad and mom saw my clamp one time. :) Nothing was ever said about it.

I think that is the only possible legit answer to that argument but even then… Pick them right, I have had 3 girls that knew and none would ever say anything.. same as I know so much stuff with them and they don’t say.

You just have to be very sure about who you are with. If you think a girl can’t handle the news then she is so very clearly not the one… well, that’s if you regard honesty as a fundamental.

When I was 14 years old my mom caught me fucking her precious chinese porcelain vase. No need to say what happened….

Don’t go overboard, you don’t have to feed them details for everything.. They may know and accept you’re doing “something” to improve your dick somehow, that doesn’t mean they don’t find it weird.

Also I agree with the others, don’t tell your girlfriends (or anyone) about it, people are not ready to be that open about this and you might end up being mocked.

Bad for them, eh?