Just divorced-Need Help Getting Bigger
First off I just want to say that this forum is great. Finally I’m able to take things into my own hands(no pun intended) and make myself the size I want. I was wondering if I could get some input from senior members on my situation. I am recently divorced after many years of an essentially sexless marriage. During my marriage I never thought my size was an issue. I was a little over 6” BPEL and probably about 4.7” mid girth. I figured I was at least average or slightly above on length and average or slightly below on girth. Overall average. Then my ex-wife hooked up with a guy 10 years younger and then when we started dividing up property she started getting nasty and saying things like I have the tiniest dick ever. I know that’s not true but if I were 8 x 6 I would definitely know it’s not true. Anyway, now I’m starting to date again and obviously I’ve developed a complex. At first with my new girlfriend I was so self conscious about sex and my size I could barely maintain an erection. I frantically discovered this site and others but settled here because it’s the best I’ve seen. I can’t help thinking that she has ranked me somewhere in her head like I am in the middle or bottom half in size. Now the good news. I have been doing PE for 4 months now. I generally do about 1 week on and then 1 week of just light stuff due to lack of privacy. I have clearly made progress and am now 6.8”BPEL and almost 5” girth mid and 5.2 base. I have gotten the prized “Is your penis getting bigger?” statement from my girlfriend. At first I was super excited and then I thought, why did she think it was small to start? I think if I were 7.5 x 5.5 I would shed this complex. Like I said I was kind of frantic at first and bought the fast size extender, the bath mate and doing the manual exercises. I can’t wear the extender more than an hour so I barely use it. The bath mate works pretty well I think. My current routine is 5 min warm up, 10 minutes stretching(left, right, down, rotations), 10 minutes of assorted horse squeezes, pseudo clamping with an OK grip, then 15-20 minutes of the bath mate and then I might jelq for anywhere from 20 minutes or longer after that. Sometimes I can’t stop myself. I hope I’m not over training. My girlfriend has commented that certain positions actually hurt now with the length(from behind) although clearly sex has improved greatly the last few months. She admitted that women talk about penis size all the time and she actually used the word girth to describe size. So now I’m like great I’m feeling pretty good about the length but it’s actually causing discomfort and girth is probably what feels best and I’m not that impressive on that stat.
So, for more experienced members reading my situation do you think I should concentrate on girth? Am I over training? Any recommended routines based on my size, situation,girlfriend’s comments and 4 months plus experience with PE?