Jelqing really hurts my hands.

I’ve been trying to do 10 mins jelqing every day but my hands just seem to cramp up after like 4-5 mins. I try to rest them between 3 min stints but it’s really difficult to do any longer jelqing sesh’s.. Am I doing something wrong?

I’ve read about jelqing sticks, anyone have any experience with them?

Your hands will grow stronger with time, GT24. It’s one of the hidden benefits of PE.

The next time you meet someone and they have a really good grip to their handshake, you can ask yourself, “Was he born with that strong handshake - or did he earn it through PE?” :)

I really do not want to be thinking about how intensely a guy pulls on his schlong when shaking his hand

Hee! I understand.

And unless he’s a member here, he will have no reason to suspect why you have such a great handshake.

You probably also don’t want to think about whether he washed his hands recently, so there’s two things not to think about.

Just don’t look down at his crotch after you get that firm handshake. Oops, that’s three things not to think about now.

Just don’t grip so hard. You can’t force results with an overly strong grip. Good results come from finesse, not force.

Natch:-,

In fact after thinking more about it I might just have to start denying handshakes all together as PE enters the mainstream.

Maybe it’s time for euro airkisses to get in vogue?

How about a hug and a Kiss (Not with me that is) :)

Man, I used to get those killer cramps to. I took a long time off and they just went away

Rule of thumb is to not grip your dick harder than you would while masterbating. It should be the same amount of pressure. You actually get a better jelq experience if you don’t grip as hard

I’ll try gentler jelqing an see where that gets me.. Does anyone have any experience with jelqing sticks though?

A really experienced guy on here told me to start out very light the first few weeks, as if you were jelqing an egg and didnt want to break the shell (kingpole). If you’re hands are hurting, you’re probably breaking the shell lol.

I don’t have experience with jelq sticks, nor would I want to try them. There is nothing more ergonomically friendly that can constantly adapt to the changing fullness of your penis then your own two hands. Your hands are by far the best jelq instrument ever invented.

Once you discover the correct pressure to use, you will no longer have a problem with your hands and your workout will be more beneficial than ever.

I have had this problem and still do sometimes. As you practice more and more jelqing with your fingers, your fingers will get used to the exercise and it will hurt much less.

It might be worth trying jelqing using both hands at once. Using the OK grip with one hand in front of the other. It’s Probably easier to accomplish if you are circumcised.

But it might be worth a try until your wrists and hands get used to the perhaps unusual position from normal daily life. Then you can go back to the regular jelqing routine.

In fencing one is often told, “Grip the weapon as if you have a small bird in your hand.”

You will certainly strengthen your hand as you continue to PE but also make a point of not tensing up and gripping harder than you actually need to. Remain as relaxed as possible while still having a strong enough grip to jelq properly.