Ok this is a personal question. I have been jelqing for about 3 months on and off. And about a month of daily jelqs. The thing is when I first started I could get this massive engorgement and push it to the glands. But now no matter how hard I try or how hard I am (from 0 to 100% erection) I cannot get that level of engorgement. And jelqing in general just feels different. Like a softness compared to hardness that’s nothing to do with erection state. It’s hard to explain. But I am trying.