I’ve been jelqing a few times a week for several months now and I have come to the conclusion that I have no idea what I’m doing. I don’t know measurements like NBPEL or whatever that is. I just know a few stretches and jelqs with the OK grip at the base. I’m 8 inches erect and am going for girth. Can anyone give me any tips or methods on achieving a thicker , more full penis ALSO help it hang more loosely when flaccid?