Its been a while - something happend to me today!

Hello everyone hope your all well.

I haven’t been on here for quite a while. I used to be obsessed with my penis size and a keen PE-er. In the end I changed my thoughts and just decided to think, whos cares, I dont care if girls say ive got a small penis its not the end of the world, ill just move on to the next girl. But my penis size anxiety is starting to creep back in and something happend erlier today which added to it…..

So ive been a bit stressed out recently so thought id go get a nice relaxing massage at a thai massage parlour. Had a massage from the thai lady who was probably about mid 40s, at the end of the massage she offered me a happy ending, so i thought what the hell and let her. While she was doing it she was commenting saying i need to get a thai girlfriend as they are tight. She said if i get and english girl they will run away and leave me because of my small penis. She was smiling while saying all this and i dont think she has any idea what kind of effect saying things like that can have on someone. She carried on making strange comments half of which i couldnt understand as her english wasnt great.

Anyway this made me feel quite down and has made me more worried and concious about the size of my unit again. By the way im 5.1”NBP and 4.1”EG. This lady must see a considerable amount of penis in her time so that makes me feel even worse.

So im back for the time being and just wanted to say hi to everyone. Anyone else had any experiences like this?

The only time a girl made me feel small was when my wife said my six incher was another one of my fish stories. It has taken me 30 years to get over it and 7 months of PE. The 7 months has fixed me as I have grown physically and mentally. The last time she joked like this I wanted to ram my 7 incher into her throat and say choke on that 7 incher. Of course I never would do that but the thought made me realize I’m past it!

Good luck with PE and hope you are consistent and follow the nebie routine to see if you missed something the last time. Maybe you haven’t learned the “art” of jelqing. Each of us responds a little differently.

My ex wife tried her best to make me feel small any chance she got.

I left her to talk to the walls, but it did motivate me to come here and heal, mentally and physically.

Three cheers for thunders!

Only real advice is to not let it bother you… 5” is average, actually good length since it’s not bone pressed. 4” circumference, 1.2” diameter is also well within average range.

With some dedicated PE, you can easily get yourself past average. :)

Hey G, same happened to me, I had a older women in Thailand say mine was small and she had seen some real big ones in her time. I shrugged it off and told her to finish the job.

Doing p.e and knowing that I have the ability to grow for the rest of my life, gives me confidence to deal with such comments, hope it can for you too.

Wow. Hope you didn’t tip her.

Welcome back. Don’t let a whore’s words get you down.

Happy ending with a backstab. Think of the PE as a dedication and excitement rather than obsession and anxiety.

Thanks for the replys guys, makes me feel a lot better. Not going to let it get me down.

Haha wow, can’t believe she had the nerve so say that. But I’d agree Asians would expect less size so I’d lean towards being with them. I mean I fucking love asians anyway. But being lower average size I’d definitely seek Asians out primarily, hopefully inexperienced ones. Then size will never be an issue and you won’t need to dedicate years of time to growing your dick. I mean size is relative isn’t it, so long as you have a good sexual relationship with a partner there is no problem. Just gotta find the right person and not let huge gaping size queens get to you :D

Is it in yet???

Lots of similar stories dude, you are not alone.

Thanks for the advice. I dont think im going to spend my time trying to find an Asian partner just because i have a small penis though. There not exactly many of them here to choose from anyway.

Well I had this happen to me before I was dating this girl a few years ago and after a good bj she said I am about in the lower 40% meaning that 60% are bigger then me. I didn’t ask her for her advice I don’t know why she told me this it really made me feel bad and I had performance anxiety. Then it just happened to me last week again. I was seeing a Filipino girl every time I was in Asia I would see her she was still a virgin but I felt bad because she was expecting marriage I knew i couldn’t commit to her so I felt bad if I was to break her cherry so we just always played orally. The last time I visited was in April and she told me that she had been talking to another guy every day for 6-months and things were developing he asked her to get married. I decided not to visit her when I was there instead I had a good time up in Clark. Anyway she ended up meeting the other guy last week and he broke her cherry she called me because she was upset that he promised to marry her but instead left and didn’t want a relationship. Anyway she was telling me how big his cock was way bigger then mine and how it hurt so bad when he was hitting her cervix. Asians are different when it comes to body parts penis size they tell it like it is they don’t understand the mans feelings about this. They are straight out honest it sucks. But anyway if you are looking for Asian women they are a dime a dozen not hard to find billions of them lol. Most prettiest IMO are the Chinese you go over there and you have 5-inches that is on the big side of average most are under 5. I’ve made a few cry in pain lol I never got that here with an American women instead I get is it in yet lol.

There are tons of Asian women here, especially by the university but I wouldn’t go near, they are ballbreakers.

I had a shit experience with one some years ago, and she was the first to admit that they love to win at all costs, and here was me thinking it was about something else!

Whatever happens happens, Just don’t rule Asians out. Keep searching till you find the woman you have the right chemistry with.

That’s so fucked up. It made me feel awkward just reading it. I can imagine that Ex finishing you off and taking her glasses off looking you straight in the eye and randomly saying that statistic about size, stupid hoe. Then this Asian chick is so fucking dumb, why would she confide in you about the size of this guy. She should just talk to her girl mates about it. I have a feeling she wanted to bring you down about it, I think quite a few women not just asian, try to emasculate men when they can to test them how secure they are.

Someone here said an asian girl was the deepest he had been with.

I wouldn’t know myself : (

And how can girls be so cruel? We men give them no reason to harbour any ill will!