Is This Weird? (Story)

So I have a friend with benefits that I ask different questions to. I basically stumbled onto a pic of her ex boyfriend. The guy looks tiny. 5’6 or 5’7 and under 150lbs. She claims I’m way better at sex than him. Probably because I made her squirt in various ways and she really hasn’t done that as much with anyone. Or so she claims. Anyways somehow I just blurted out that I want her to compare our dick size. And she claimed she couldn’t, so that made me suspicious. Thinking she was trying to protect my ego. So eventually she says he has a big dick, but doesn’t know how big. She’s very experienced and seen a lot, so I ask her to estimate. And she claimed we were close in length, but I beat him on girth by a little bit. I’m about 8.25bp x 6meg. So I asked her so many questions that eventually she just decided to ask him how big his dick is. He claims between 8.5-9inches. So I ask her if she could take him balls deep and she said sometimes. So now I’m obsessed with trying to prove he’s lying and he’s really closer to my size, but he’s really skinny and has no pelvic fat. Why am I obsessed with this, I have no fucking clue. I think I have deep issues.

I think the fact that he’s Floyd Mayweather’s size, but a lot younger than me has me kinda depressed and obsessed for some reason.

I wouldn’t worry about it to much your pretty big yourself

Part of the issue with my lack of confidence is my weight. My fat pad is at least 2.75 inches. I actually believe it to be over 3. I’ve lost some weight, but not enough to effect the fat pad.

You’re on that road that has no good outcome. She’s gonna think you’re insecure and lose attraction for you and you’re getting her interested in another guys size. Take the compliment that you are way better than him and pound that PUSSY and stop obsessing. Fuck that guy.

hi, is still constant with your weight loss routines, remember that a good penis is not everything, improve your physical appearance, I assure you that you will have more confidence in you, your penis is of good measures, I do not know how much height but I suppose you are tall, take what you have and take it to another level

I’m incredibly insecure. I also think her being friendly with this guy has ruined my attraction to her. It’s like I just keep seeing him when I see her. The guy was 19 or 20 yrs old with this dick. It just makes me question everything.

Your dick is BIG brother! And SHE says you know how to use it! But I get it. If she’s fucked up your mojo, move on. If not… hit that shit HARD! And have fun with that big dong! I had a ton of fun with what I considered a little ☝️ one. But I had youth and enthusiasm, and now I have experience.

i like your outlook on things. Thanks

Wasting time worrying about the size of your penis really does ruin the chances of having sex. It ruins good opportunities and it creates a scenario where no matter how big your dick is you’ll never be happy.

I wished for many years for a bigger penis. I waited until I was 24 to have sex. Then I had very little sex until around age 30.

Most of the insecurities that I felt wasn’t something that my partner’s gave me unless I insisted on making them do it. You insisted that she give you something to be insecure about. She obliged.

Until you negotiate the part of you that forced her hand you won’t be happy with yourself or any Partners you have in the future.

That’s profound. I hear so much here that I get more thankful every day that I just put IT out there when I was young and smashed ass and had fun. Everyone gets something from this place.

Yeah, my probs are bigger than dick. No pun intended. I’m just an unhappy person, and I need to work on that. Thanks guys for listening to me.

Bud, Small suggestion: change your name for starters. Nothing small there!

Don’t wanna sound like a wanker but look around. You will soon find lots to be mightily thankful for👍👍

Sorry if that’s rude man! Not meant to be!

Guy, you have a BIG unit! Wish I have that measure!

Enjoy your unit, make girls enjoy it. Don’t let your mind play games with your self esteem.

Forget the other guy, and live your life with your girl.

Regards,

Wait a minute…isn’t there another thread that you started bemoaning your how you’ll never get bigger? And everyone stepped in to make you feel better? Yet you’re over 8x6? Come on, man…geez.

I get the 3-inch fatpad problem. I’m not saying that’s not an issue. But fatpads are fixable.

Get on a real diet. Lift. You’ll get there.

Well, I kept it up and she finally told me about the last time they had sex. See, I felt that she was lying to me. That there was no way I could be better than someone that skinny with a dick that big. Turns out she admitted the last time with him was really good and lasted for hrs. Needless to say, I’m kinda sad and pissed off now. Maybe I was just looking for a way to ens this weird lil relationship we have.

How do I fix my mind?