Is Something Wrong with my Penis

After peing for a little over 2 months, I’ve noticed that I ejaculate a lot quicker when having sex. Before, I would be able to last 10 minutes easily, but now, I nut after only 2 or 3 minutes.And there are times that I won’t be able to get it up at all during sex no matter how hard I try. My girlfriend has become self conscious, and she thinks that it’s her fault. Has anyone experienced these things as well? Should I take a week off from peing and then come back to it?

I don’t know what to tell you about busting a nut earlier than usual (maybe practice edging), however, not being able to get it up maybe a sign of over doing your PE venture. The problem with not getting it up once is that next time it will be on your mind and the mental aspect will start affecting it.

My advice: 1. Ease up on your PE. 2. Relax. Give each other massages before sex. You will get it up after a good massage and you will get it up while giving her a full body nude massage. Continue to do this until your confidence builds back.

Only be careful of foot massages. I’ve had a girlfriend routinely fall asleep when I gave her a foot massage - and I’ve fallen asleep myself while getting one as well!

About coming too fast: make sure your girlfriend knows it is her “fault”, if it can be construed to be a fault - sex with her is so great and intense, and you’ve just come to learn how great it is, thus the unwanted sideeffect of coming too fast.

ABout edging.am I able to do it after a jelqing session? Or should I let my penis rest a bit more before edging?

Also, can kegeling make you nut quicker?? I’ve been thinking that this might be one of the factors to my (now) premature ejaculation. But when I do ejaculate, I’ve noticed that I now have a bigger load. Around how long after kegeling will I be able to control my ejaculations?

This is normal. PE makes the cock ultra-sensitive. If you cum once though, that sensitivity goes. So just wack yourself off before you meet your gal.

I’m not too sure about your edging after PE question but I would think it to be fine. The whole goal of edging is to learn where your “point of no return” is and be able to know when to back off a little. When you are with your lady, you can practice edging on her. Get close to the point of no return and then slow down a little. When the feeling subsides, step up the action with her again.

Kegeling should make you last longer. In fact, when I am approaching the point of no return, I kegel really intensly which helps the feeling subside. However, I have heard some people report that it makes them come sooner.

If your girlfriend is understanding, tell her you want to practice some techniques on her. This way she won’t be upset when you keep thrusting then slow down and even stop at points. Trust me, eventually this will all come together for you.

You need to start edging daily without ejaculation.

Thanks for all the advice guys.

I couldn’t last 5 minutes masturbating! After PE I could last like 10 more minutes.

Totally agree with this! Edging = guilt-free masturbation.
Also, to answer an earlier question in this thread, I like to edge after a jelq session. Jelqing isn’t about pleasure - it’s about working out (although I find it enjoyable). Edging gives me that pleasure afterwards. I bring myself VERY close to ejac (vs. orgasm = not the same thing!) and hold it in. Then I reward myself with a nice long hot wrap!

Your GF should see it as a compliment that you nut earlier.

AHHH! I’ve tried edging a few times already and I don’t seem to have any self control. How long are you supposed to edge for. I usually just watch a clip (usually around 10-15min) and try to hold myself back for that time.it goes good until the end and I always lose my control near the end (when it’s the climax shot). Needa keep practicing!

Don’t bring yourself so close to the edge at first. When it really starts building up, slow way down, reduce friction or completely stop until the feeling subsides. As time goes by, bring it closer and closer. The main point of this excersize is to get to know yourself. Once you know how you respond, you will be able to control it.

The book “The Multiorgasmic Man” is pretty good for stuff like this. It teaches you to fully explore your erogoneous zones (perenium, million dollar point, etc) so you can bust your nut when you want to. I’m about one-third into the book and it’s pretty interesting. Chances are you can find this book at the public library but it’s also avail on amazon, barnes/noble, etc…
Keep practicing with the edging and like Gut Scrambler said use stop/start techniques to help control.
Good luck!