Is size really that important?

Check out this thread: Penis Insecurity by men video. Believe it or not, there is a guy in the video linked there who was driven to penis enlargement surgery because he overheard a comment like this (not about him). Watch the video to see a good example of an insane, insecure loser. He was 7" EL x 6" EG to start with!

In most cases size is more important to us than it is to the girl we use it on.
How important it is to the girl is often derived from her physiology, experience and preference with different sizes in her life. If you make it an issue with the girl, you can inadvertently open Pandora’s box and it will become more of an issue than it originally was to begin with.

However you simply cant isolate size in a vacuum and have it be the “be all” and “end all” of a relationship
There is something to be said for the person it is attached to, personality, the techniques used, the communication, charm etc etc i.e. size is only one of the parts but in this context…the whole is greater than the parts.
Women don’t just look at you for the size of your dick, there is more to it than that.

Well, there you go.

If your girl says you are big, then I guess you are big. So shutup and make her smile.

I should come here more often. Reading here reminds me of not being that small and about not taking the pornos as truth. And to work with what I got.

What I need to do now is do a schedule for say two months, print it out, put it next to (under ;) ) my running-schedule, and cross over done workouts. It really helped me training more consistently and it will help me PE-ing more consistently.

Thanks for the slap guys :)

Just a little advice. Stop talking with women about dicks. Why should one care about other dicks? It just denotes insecurity and/or awkwardness. We are here to make ours bigger if we feel it will bring us any changes.(mostly psychological)

Women like to be dominated and “ravaged” in bed. Don’t misinterpret “ravaged”. The truth is many guys are feeling awkward about their size, so they act like whimps in bed. The social conditioning regarding the importance of size make them lose the most important aspect…PASSION. It’s really not size the one who’s stoping a smaller/average guy to give women orgasms.

If sex was all about size women would all buy that King Dong dildo and play with it all day, who needs men?

I don’t mean to spam, but I have to say David Shade’s work changed my perception on many things regarding male-female relationships. He’s average sized and a sex guru. (makes you think…)

In the book The Game by Neil Strauss, Mystery is continuously failing in love life. Every girl that becomes his girlfriend dumps him. Though it’s known in the comunity that Mystery has a large penis. If you’re asking yourself what are girls looking for and think it’s the guy with the bigest penis, think again. We can all learn from this. (Mystery = VH1’s The Pickup Artist host)

I will stop that. I’ll try to stop talking to my girl about it too. I have, or I try to have, this policy about not whining about problems. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mean I’m not communicating, I just don’t want to haul my problems on other people and steal their energy.
So I will try to stop talking about this with my girl. I know she likes it in bed, I make her come, not in intercourse, she says she never had that, but she moans and groans loud when we have sex. I take her.

But I didn’t know Mystery was equipped. I was “in the community” but I stopped visiting the forums and such little over a year ago.

A good trick to temporarily increase girth is to do your routine and then put on a cock ring. I do it all the time. If you do your workouts about 2 to 3 hours before sex and slip on a cock ring, there is no reason she should notice. And if you take a Viagra or golden root, even better. Very effective, you can easily get up to 1/2 inch thicker.

Thanks for the tip! But I want gains that last, and I don’t want to use a cock ring of some reason.

You know, I think I like you! I have read many of your posts and you seem intelligent and articulate. I, of course, mean that in a totally “non-gay” kind of way! LOL We also share the same interest in women’s feet!!

Now, in regard to the “does size matter”? It matters most in YOUR mind. If I had a dime for every time a guy asks this here and follows the question with “she says that she is very happy with my size, BUT”.

Chill out, relax, listen more and second guess less. Your size is definitely a good one. If you incorporate a good jelq session, every other day or so, you can most likely turn that into a 5.5” in no time.

It is in your power to be what you want to be. Spend less time asking your girl about your dick, dicks she’s had before and dicks she wants to have and start jelqing that thing buddy!

I’ve met many succesful people. I’ve seen good PUA seminars (I don’t agree with everything they say, but I admire their success), met succesful husbands, met cool people who became my friends… They all had something in common: being pozitive. That’s the foundation of comfort. I don’t have that much experience as many members here but I can tell you that. Good to see you on the right path, man.

Women appreciate a quality, being it looks, amazing lover aptitudes or confidence or whatever, we don’t have to speak about them. It’s really not talking about it that makes others realize there’s always “more than this” about you.

We will say Amen to the above. Sevenandbeyond, you have great size and besides she loves your size but more important she seems to love you. Its time for you to look within and begin to appreciate that which you have been blessed with. Continue to enjoy PE and more importantly time spent with your lady.

Nice to see you posting again, padawan. :)

Hello Cheeva.

Actually I am very happy to be back at Thunder’s. There’s no place like home.

I stopped PE’ing full time well over 2-3 years ago and stopped altogether about 2 years ago and this was because I came to the realisation that I was at the average size that I felt I needed and also because I started getting into the stuff on the seduction community mostly david deangelo and Neil Strauss.
I soon realised that confidence was a big problem, and that this had to do with my insecurity about my penis size among other things to do with depression and ADD.

Now, I don’t think that the seduction community is 100% spot on at all, I just read alot of stuff and decided for myself which advice i’d take on board with my life.
I didn’t do any of the fancy stuff that they suggested but after reading the boog The Game, I found the general sense of confidence and flair in a personality and david deangelo’s general view about “cocky and funny” the real help in my sexual and love life.
I didn’t read it word for word and neither did i pay for the reading materials or anything from these authours at all, but I took a great deal of knowledge from what they wrote and all of a sudden it didnt matter about my dick so much as I realised that no matter how big it got, that there would always be this thing of “if only another 1/4 inch more) and such.
That it can become addictive and take over your life just as anything can, much like bodybuilding can or anything at all for that matter, even workers can become workaholics.
So I was becoming PEaholic in a sense.

I just want to say that it was only after I stopped PEing that I lost my virginity at age 20, after reading all those numerous articles by david deangelo and neill strauss and by sifting through to find the core of the confidence that made me go from fucking nobody to having 5 girls on the go at once!
Seriously that was fun, but ironically by regarding women as less powerfull in a way made me more confident around them and by cheating and whatnot I got respect from my mates (‘buddies’ in american speak) and was the happiest that i have ever been in my life at that time.

Now I don’t know if people here on thunders have the same reasons that I did for getting into PE, as I believe that some are happily in a relationship and just want to get bigger for their girl, but it must affect the confidence of a man in a negative way to feel that one’s dick is not the size that is needed in order to please a woman.
That has to be one of the greatest if not the greatest knocks to a man’s confidence that there is in life!

Cas

Size is important in the context of dating and being with the hottest female you could possibly be with. I admit my standards are very high, I’m never able to keep a girl after I get them in the bedroom. I always think to myself after how good of a job I did, but the problem is you can only do so good of a job if the tool you are working with isn’t the best.

Like others have said, in the big scheme of things, are you healthy? Are you able to afford to live? Those are by far 2 much more important issues. Then down the list, acceptance is something that is important to us all. For me, being able to have a girlfriend of the caliber that I know I should be with is part of acceptance. I’m 27 and I’ve yet to be in any serious relationship, and the that is not by choice.

Bottom line, size helps you keep more attractive women. If keeping an attractive woman around is important to you, then yes, size is important. If you don’t care about that too much, or you are not as picky as I am, then I guess it’s not as important.