Is mine big enough to please a woman?
I’ve been reading the forums here and came across another members post who was depressed about not seeing gains after just starting PE. He was worried about not being able to please a woman with his penis. I just joined the forum to respond to this member. Unfortunately I cannot find the post now. But what I have to tell him probably could be said to many members.
Here’s my story. A long time ago I dated a girl who just got out of a long term relationship with a guy sporting 12” (yes I saw the pics, and these freaks of nature do exist). It was quite obvious my 6 inches wasn’t doing much (literally throwing a pencil down a well). I started PE and hit my routine aggressively. I gained 1” in length in 7 months. I realized I would never be a 1 footer and stopped. I then started doing research on the female orgasm and how to really please a woman. After educating myself on the how to’s, I was able to give her orgasms she never experienced with her ex.
For you guys that think all it takes to please a woman is a huge penis to hammer away at her, you couldn’t be more wrong. Women are not like men. Their orgasms are more about a connection with their partner (spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical). If a woman isn’t connected to her partner, chances are she will not have an orgasm.
If you want to satisfy a woman but you think your penis isn’t big enough to do so, there are several things you can do. First and most important.. TAKE YOUR TIME DURING SEX!! Its not a race. Make sure your partner is comfortable. Give her a massage. Talk to her.. Find out what she likes. DON’t SKIP FOREPLAY! Being the gentleman that I am, my rule has been “women cum first”. If she doesn’t then I don’t deserve to either. Learn how to perform oral sex properly. It’s a totally different orgasm for a woman. Learn the biological make up of the vagina. There are a multitude of things going on down there, each thing you stimulate has a different affect. Learn how different positions can stimulate these areas no matter what your penis size is. A slight change of your penetration angle can make your penis feel larger to her. If your goal is really to please a woman, then listen to her and know how to read her. If she doesn’t seem like she’s in the mood then stop because she probably won’t have an orgasm (and you’ll probably take it personally and kill your self esteem). Any guy can easily become the best sex partner a woman ever had. You just need to stop thinking with and about your dick.
The thing women are most attracted to is confidence. A big penis will give you confidence, but so will giving a woman an orgasm (or two, or three) every time your with her.
You may ask why am I here then. Well.. I enjoy a tighter feel. And after my wife had a few kids, things aren’t what they use to be. So I’m working on making sex more enjoyable for myself and I’m sure my wife wouldn’t mind either.