I’m having the same problem with jelqing. Haven’t been doing it that long, and maybe that’s my problem, but I’m wondering if maybe I’m squeezing too hard with the OK grip. My jelqing really doesn’t have any stimulating effect at all so I have to do a few jerk strokes to harden it up every 10 jelqs or so. It ends up making it a very exasperating experience. So what I’m wondering, basically, is whether jelqing is supposed to feel good at all. Any thoughts?