Is it possible to stop Wet Dreams

Lack of desire is really not that odd. It’s just that those of us who don’t have any usually keep our mouths shut out of fear of being made fun of except in forums such as this.

Lack of desire is odd, as in atypical. It isn’t anything to be ashamed of, but is worth investigating. It may be a symptom of an underlying condition. Doing some tests won’t hurt.

Some will argue, perhaps rightfully so, that not caring about sex would be a godsend. That isn’t likely to be the prevalent attitude on a PE forum.

It seems to be so rare in men that the doctors don’t really know what to look for. All my tests over the last 4 years have come up normal.

I totally agree with avocet8. If you do not ejaculate regularly, you are liable to have prostatitis or even prostate cancer later on. I sense that Tommy has got some issues with sex or sexuality in general. The headache may have a psychosomatic origin. I suggest that he should see his doctor and discuss about this ASAP.

I do not believe in this Taoist thing at all. I am of Asian background and have seen how these Taoist ‘medical’ theories destroyed people’s health. The only scientific medicine in the world is Western/European medicine.

Science is the religion of 21st century. Everybody “beleives”.. :)

Science searchs for evidence of truth, rather than using faith, religon, superstition, or philosophy to come to conclusions.

Science is simply looking for the truth.

Xeno knows this. He knows science, yet we disagree on some things about this Taoist philosophy. That is ok. I respect your opinion Xenolith. This thread is not a debate about Taoism or “SKF” and the like.

I think the Taoist teachings on sexuality are very useful, although I don’t believe all the mysticism that goes with it. Regardless, I don’t think these teachings are the answer for Tommy.

The tools for controlling orgasm are useful for a normal healthy guy who wants to expand his sexual horizons. Tommy needs to first understand the basics of his sexuality, why he doesn’t masturbate, why he is so concerned with wet dreams, why his sex drive is apparantly low, etc before he should be thinking about advanced orgasmic control. Telling him that there may be a way to completely shut off his ejaculations, day or night, is not showing him the path he needs.

Agreed mravg.

I used to have both a wet dream and nightmare problem!! Sounds silly but ive learnt how to realise when its a dream and with nightmares I can wake myself up (strange outa body experience where i seem to thump myself from inside) and ive also learnt in an erotic dream to realise and suppress the urges so I dont make a mess!! It seems my dreams were somewhat extreme and from some advice I have had about it, my aility to influence my dreams is a sign of an over active brain, but it works for me!! Just tell yaself if ur about to shag that hot bird you have yearned over for years that it must be a dream and time to wake up! Try it you will be suprised!

Tommy
It’s good you’ve improved your kegels. If you just add some edging to it, you’ll improve your chances much more.

BTW, BigGirtha’s ideas aren’t discussed, but it may be true.. It’s a strange universe we’re living in. Your extraordinary exhaustion may be due to that. So just master kegels and edging, then no matter how sexy is whatever you’re *ucking, you’ll keep your load. And if your dreams just stop then, BG is probably right.

Learning to recognize when you’re dreaming isn’t silly. Do a search on lucid dreaming and you’ll find a bunch of people doing or attempting that very thing. Also search on OBE or out of body experience.

Oh, and also check out our forum guidelines on writing style. The “yaself” and “ur” slang doesn’t belong here.

as well as one of the best means of legal threatening and money-makin’

Caps a13, and a little punctuation please.

Roger.

I have a dream problem also. If I PE near bed time my dick sometimes stands up all night. This is also, because I don’t masturbate much, because of PE.

I have also a nightmare problem and a freaking one. The main problem is not the nightmares themselves, but what happens when I wake up when seeing one. About 5- 10 seconds after I wake up I sometimes still see things from my dream as I watch around.

I have learnt to live with it quite well, but still. It is pretty freaky to see some monster in your room, when you are awake with your eyes open and you just must to try ignore it. Well at least it brings some attitude.

Sure, you can stop them. Jack off or screw more. Your body needs release and it’s happening one way or the other. Sexual activity is not the bad guy. It’s healthy. It keeps the body in balance. There has been recent data published that indicates that guys having sex several times a week out live those who don’t.