Is 'big' big ENOUGH? Anyone naturally gifted?

There could be some post-partum hormonal issues too which could affect her libido, cervixhunter.

I’ve not posted here for a while, but Spektrum’s comments at the beginning really nailed it.

A lot of guys here need to stop being ruled by their egos.

God knows, I’m not there yet, but the focus should be in this direction rather than that of physical change.

Just as you shouldn’t enter a relationship until you are secure within yourself, perhaps you shouldn’t enter PE until you are confident within your sexuality. I think this is the take home message from Thunders Place. Kind of hippy right? But true.

My experience with PE now is to focus on enjoying it and seeing having a big dick (which thanks to this place I now possess- 8BP x 6.3EG at base) as an enjoyable accessory to life. Learning to transcend what we came here for, but at the same time achieving this goal, is the holy grail.

@johnnyjuan85: I think everybody who starts PE with an above-average size (myself included), is driven by his ego. For respect to those who have confidence issues and are more entitled to practice PE, I won’t comment on this thread.

@JoyStick: Sorry for misunderstanding your situation! I thought you have newborn babies and post-partum issues. I feel for you and wish good luck in your quest!

9.5 inches isn’t huge?

Anything under a foot is worthless.

I understand where you are coming from. But keep the time frame of PE in mind. For most it is an endeavor spanning years. I would recommend that guys planing on undertaking PE start doing so right off. They can add all manor of related undertakings as they go.

WTF dude?!? :eek: Thundersplace is the cutting edge of PE knowledge. I hope you were just joking; we haven’t beaten our units with a hammer around these parts in nearly 2 years!

Jelq up to a 50% erection, then place your cock in an insulated pipe tube for protection. Then lie your cock along a window ledge and start slamming the window closed repeatedly along the length of it. After 100 reps hang your body weight off of the closed upon your cock window.

My god, beating it with a hammer! :fie:

Hahaha

What I said was ”beat my unit with a hammer - SORT OF SPEAKING” which was obviously an exaggeration of too much intense workout if you know what I mean..

I am not a native English speaker, is the expression ”sort of speaking” a valid expression, or equivalent to ”so to speak”, or did I just make it up?

Do you accept responsibility for some crazy person who will attempt to do this? Do you? :D D Lol
They might end up with multiple cocks of smaller sizes.. Hahaha

Johnnyjuan85, I started out a little longer and fatter than you. NBPEL was between 7.25 and 7.5, and erect girth was about 5.9 inches. Like joystick though, I was definitely a grower, not a shower. After 4 months of PE, it’s bigger and fatter, both erect and flaccid, which has helped with the self esteem.

Like others have said, there are certainly ups and downs once you get a certain size (though what that size is will be determined by your partner). My wife thought I was just being neurotic and insecure when I started PE, but now that I’ve gotten good results, she loves it, and has told me she wants me to keep going with it. That being said, she is also kind of afraid of it because it is more painful for her. Also, she has a hard time blowing me due to my girth. Her mouth has to stay at the top and use a hand for the rest.

Another factor is simply how much time needs to go into PE, which is quite a bit.

When my wife was with a friend of hers, who had seen my penis before, my wife asked her “You remember how big Josh’s penis is”, her friend said “Yeah”. So my wife told her about the PE and showed her a picture of it now. The friends response was “Oh, my God!”. Needless to say, I was pretty happy when I heard that:)

So there are ups and downs. So far I’ve gained about 1/2 in erect length and .3 inches in girth over 4 months. And my final verdict, after taking everything into consideration, is that PE is PRETTY FREAKING SWEET in terms of sex, self image and appearance to others. It has definitely been worth it, even though I started out big. But that’s just me.

Poodge, thanks for your response, you are heading towards building an even bigger monster!

You said you are only for 4 months into it. I guess you started with the newbie routine for a couple of months and then how did you follow up?

I started with just wet jelqing; I think more or less according to the newbie guide with increasing intensity over time. In the beginning of January I started hanging weights according to the guides, which I think has been real effective. I started erect jelqing this week and I ordered a cable clamp and will start clamping once it arrives.

So currently I jelq for 15-45 minutes per day in 1 or 2 sessions. And I hang an 8 lb. Weight for 20 - 45 minutes per day. I do this routine 4-6 times per week according to how lazy I am and how sore my wang is.

Is every woman who is above average looking that uses makeup driven by her ego? What drives ugly women to use makeup? Is makeup an entitlement? Is PE an entitlement? What does that even mean? Compare a 5 inch penis married to a 4 inch vagina vs. An 8 inch penis dating a monstrous tyrannosaurus-gina. I think these are very arbitrary blanket judgments. Everything is relative. People should be understood based on their individual circumstances.