Is 9" excessive?

All your gains are from pumping?

Or manuals also work with you?

I think so if filling a women up is what you want, Only like 6 pornstars reach that BP… And probably not even 1 NBP (maybe a “younger” Mandingo). Think of the problems they have with sex.. And those women tend to “prep” themselves in a way.

Define "excessive".

Too much for sex? No, just take care and use your head on your shoulders so you don’t hurt your partner. Keep lube on hand. Master foreplay. Be a gem. Don’t get hung up on getting balls deep. Or Deepthroat or Anal.

Too much for good EQ? Not if you do it right and have the physiology for super EQ with a super size. Often porn stars don’t do PE for health so you see those loofah, pillow dicks. Not necessarily going to be the case if you’re careful. My EQ is good and I’m headed there. So I’ve got no issue with it but it ain’t for everyone to get or receive.

Too much for condoms? Mostly. I recommend this one.

Size G31 myONE® Perfect Fit Condoms (6 Counts)

Biggest condom I could find. Plus it’s nonlatex. Which is important due to latex allergy issues for some people. But.. My base girth is 7.5" minimum with erection so.. It falls short an inch at least due to girth. But how much coverage do you need? Are you only worried about pregnancy? Then there you go.

Too much for clothes? Bulge indecent? Size your pants waist bigger. I do it 2 to 4 inches bigger. So.. My pants legs fit relaxed, sometimes baggy but it is adequate to avoid stares and keep it loose and comfortable.

Too much to avoid being turned down? Women aren’t that picky and usually give you a good try at least once regardless. Most men are glad to try, I’ve had propositions and I’m straight.

So.. What exactly are you trying to avoid or worried about that "excessive" is a concern? I mean if you want a condom to fully cover you, may miss out. Balls deep, may miss out. Deepthroat, may miss out. Anal, may miss out. But it isn’t that technical really. Just some simple things you have to decide how you want to handle.

Excessive is in the eye of the owner. What do YOU think?

“Too much for sex? No, just take care and use your head on your shoulders so you don’t hurt your partner. Keep lube on hand. Master foreplay. Be a gem. Don’t get hung up on getting balls deep. Or Deepthroat or Anal.”

So every time you have sex, you will need lube, foreplay for some time, can’t go balls deep (unless you find a lady like Titliest’s wife), can’t get deepthroat action, and can’t do anal? Sounds pretty boring, I have to say. I’d aim for 7-8.

I think excessive is in the eye of the receiver. If you don’t want to receive it because of size, then it’s excessive.

If it’s in the eye of the receiver, can you ask every future partner about it beforehand? Or are you weighing your happiness when you come here to learn PE?

Partner preference matters, definitely. But you can fail to meet expectations regardless. You can’t somehow be the optimum for everyone, it’s not possible. You can only assure being the optimum for yourself.

Just like women have all sorts of body shapes and alter them freely, what she decides is too much or too little is that final word, not us.

Can’t please everyone. Please yourself, then find someone pleased by you. That’s all you can do in the end. What’s too much or too little is in the mirror, not the eyes of an observer.

If that’s 9+ or less than 7, or no changes.. The only thing that’s too little or too much is what drives you to change it, ultimately. No single choice will fit most of us. And some of our fates will not see us reaching every goal. You just have to be at peace with yourself at the end. Hopefully your partner shares that sentiment, as you can only control your feelings.

Why don’t they last as long?

Can you go balls deep? I don’t think I ever asked you that?

Guys my opinion.

Anything over 8 inches in length and 6 in girth should go together with a good amount of experience on how to sexualy handle ladies.

If experience isn’t there, you are in for bad situations.

We ought to be gentlemen. Not brutes.

Again, this is my opinion.

Yes, 9” is excessive.

But also pretty freaking awesome!

My wife’s jaw gets sore. Then she resorts to licking the head and sucking my balls.

Yes, I can go balls deep.

Titleist is right don’t do more if things are ok I didn’t think I was doing more didn’t get any bad effects at the time but my dick totally turtled for 3 days