Informing significant other of PE

Hi guys I am sure that this has been addressed before but for all of you that have significant others and currently doing PE, I was wondering if any of you addressed this issue with your significant others or do you keep quite and not let him/her know. If you did tell them.. How did you go about doing this? Or.. Have many of you found success by not telling them. For me, I personally live with my significant other and our schedules are VERY similar. I am new to this and albeit I can get away for twenty minutes without getting questions asked now, I know that the exercising sessions are only gonna get longer and that will probably raise questions. Should I just get it out in the open? How should I go about it?

Hi Cardinalhead.

A small point on your post, if I may.

The term ‘significant other’ may be a bit confusing to some of our members whose first language is not English.

Even a check on the words doesn’t help much as it can be virtually anyone you know. If it”s a boy friend, great!! No problem here, but it could be a wife girl- friend, etc. and could leave some with a question of your question before they can fully understand your meanings. It’s fairly easy for us whose first laanguage is English. Although I had to read through it a couple of times before I was able to identify who the Significant Other is.

Interesting post though :)

Petit

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Oh.. Sorry, I was trying to be as PC as possible. I realize now that doing this made the question much more complex. I my case it would be my wife. Should I let her know or keep it secret.

Thanks lampwick!

Let us know what you decide, and how it works out for you.

It’s one of those subjects that will have to be dealt with very carefully. I don’t think there are any rules that can apply here. Perhaps some very gently hints might lead to a discussion. Trouble is she may like more, but may think it would hurt you to say so.

But good luck whatever you do! :)

I told my wife just tonight. I’ve had minor drop in EQ and stamina lately and told her about an unbiased site where I had read about some exercises that may help. The only time in life that having those problems might be an advantage. I didn’t really mention anything about the “Enlargement” part I’m hoping for.

You could possibly tie it into some other health issue…if you’re very creative.

peac.e

Well I just came out and told my wife from the start, as my thinking is I’m doing if for her as well.And I can honestly say she’s being very supportive of me, so in my case it was the right choice

I would not tell the girlfriend about PE. If I had to offer an explanation, I would say it was for penis health or some thing, erection quality, etc. This is my situation. It is a personal thing for me. Woman chat to their friends about everything. Believe me.

If you think that she or he wouldn’t have a problem with your exercises then by all means tell them.

The other side of this is after about a year of working out you can hope that your partner will be asking you questions about why it’s so much bigger.

My girlfriend went from being sceptical to being neutral, now she’s actually happy that I do it. :)

Tough call, but I would say no. I think if you PE it should be for yourself. There are many reasons for this…

A nice bonus is when your significant other is like, “What the hell?!? Did this thing get bigger? It hurts a bit now, and feels damn good…”

Mmm I’ve seen some real horror stories of guys telling their spouse or girlfriend about PE. In more than one case I think it’s actually caused them to break up!

Might be best to try and elucidate her reaction by the asking of some careful, subtle, carefully constructed hypotheticals :D

Unless it’s your wife or future wife, DON’T DO IT! Like dieselpower said, girls literally to each other everything. Couldn’t get it up one day? Her best friend knows about it. Girlfriend found porn magazines under you bed? Her roommate knows about it. Unless you’re fine with people knowing about you doing PE, I would not tell your girlfriend.