In a dark place

Mr weenie : its just shy of 2 inches around 16ml. I’m starting to realise to is all a phantom of my mine.

Ares88: Thank you for the positive message, I’m already feeling better today, I do sometimes overuse the forums to get sympathy messages but this truly has been great, some great info

Stealthman: I’m still trying to get to terms with some of your advice, as some of it is quite hard to grasp, but some of it really hit home especially the part of waking up in the morning feeling great then looking for the problem.

Firegoat: Your knowledge/advice has been invaluable had putting my mind at ease, small gestures like that have done a lot to improve my life in the last few days. I went to my gp today he said the size difference is 20%, which is apparently in the range of normal so good news.

Imarau: I will continue PE as part of my daily routine including exercise, adequate sleep and a healthy diet. I will try and find the answers for myself. Thank you

Well done pob.

Put a big smile on your face; you are taking a much more positive stance on life.

The more positive you can be, (and most of the time it’s a state of mind), the more wonder-filled you will find life, every day.

Try to find the answers for yourself pob, that’s great, but if you need help, the Thunder’s ‘cloud’ will be here for you.

Firegoat: I think I am starting a more positive path, just to tick the final worry of my testicle list. I was hit in the nuts pretty hard around 16, it left a slight bruse in my inner leg and scrotum , the pain left after a day or so though, would they have been any call for concern.

In regards to testicle massaging is this a worthwhile path to go down or testicle jelqing suggested by rbi99 on PE gym? Or is best just to leave them alone

In regards to prem ejac, I’m having wet dreams where I pre-ejac in them , this has happened in the last year or so also effecting me in real life?

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Thanks marinera, any thoughts to my others put forward?

As for the the hit in the nuts, I don’t think it can have further consequences.

I think you shouldn’t jelq testicles; gentle massage is ok if you feel aching, but otherwise just leave your nuts alone.

About this: >>In regards to prem ejac, I’m having wet dreams where I pre-ejac in them , this has happened in the last year or so also effecting me in real life?<<
I’m not sure I understand your question. Wet dreams are dreams so arousing that you have an ejaculation; this generally is a hint that you should fuck or at least masturbate a bit more often. If you have a too high level of arousal, yes it can cause premature ejaculation, expecially in young guys.

I’ve been a full-time martial artist in the past and received quite a few good kicks to the testes, as have lots of my friends. Luckily neither me no them have sustained any long-term damage; you would know it if you had.

Gentle testicle massage is quite a good thing to do once in a while, but it’s not necessary. Testicle jelqing is similar to some Asian qi gong practices - I have done a lot of qi gong, but was never a fan of anything to do with my testicles!

I’m no expert on dreams, but I think they do to some degree reflect worries you have in waking life; a way for your ‘brain’ to try to make sense of things. Sorry I can’t help more on that,

Thanks, in regards to anxiety/depression experiencing these during teenage years, will the have effected my brain n the long term, as I have had such a high level of cortisol/adrenaline n my system. As this wasn’t used for repair could this have potential limits to growth

No. If you get over those issues they won’t have any permanent effect.

FYI, many of the biggest genius in the history suffered of anxiety/depression and similar problems. Even Latins used to say ‘Only stupid people are often happy.’ (not a literal translation, but you got the meaning).

I apologize for that, these things are best communicated in person and its not really advice so there is no need to come to terms with it.

Ideas such as “thinking beyond the mind” are enigmatic and designed to expose the limitation of thought and the language that expresses it.

Just know that your confusion is a key component to unlock the truth because when the house of cards (ego) falls completely… *you* will remain untouched.

Its like a zen koan where the mind tries to wrap itself around something greater than itself…. and fails utterly, then the possibility presents itself.

Maybe examine the process that takes place when you wake up in the morning and decide to suffer… valuable clues are hidden there.

Marinera: thanks, I meant also regards to genital growth as I heard cortisol can create permanent turtling. Also have you any experience or heard of people using hcg/clomid or damiana? Thanks. I think now the testicle issue is the result of a retractable testicle, which I couldn’t have done anything about, ah well

Stealthman: there is no need to apologize, I should be thanking you for your knowledge. You say it would best to communicate in person. Would a Skype session be out of the question? This issue I really want to nip on the but.

Also is there a way to determine how many layers of tunica you have? Thanks

Cortisol should only produce turtling when it is present.

The usual way to determine tunica layers is by dissection! An MRI scan might show it up though. :)

We have two tunica layers. There is only one study that has found some subjects had more or less of two tunica layers, and it has methodological flaws according to most. You mean in regards to testicles size? I wouldn’t mess with hcg; clomid requires prescription and it increase ejaculatory in some people (not everybody) and can kill your libido; I don’t think it makes your testicles bigger by a significative effects; also, it will mess with your hormonal balance, which could bad in some cases; you could become emotionally instable and this is the last thing you’d want right now.

Damiana anecdotically can enlarge balls after continued use; it lowers libido though, because it is estrogenic. Makes your eyes become yellow if you smoke damiana often.

Yellow, like the eye-color or the white (sclera)?