I'm such a newbie

Not only am I a newbie to PE, but I’m a newbie to sex. Me and my girlfriend just started having sex. Just finished for my 3rd time, but I’m only lasting for like 5 minutes when it happens. Is this normal for someone who’s new to sex or am I doomed for the rest of my life?

Do a search on kegels. These can help you last longer if you exercise them. Good luck on your gains.

NDK

Kegels and condom(s) should help.

Get the desensitizing condoms (for her is what they’re called I think) and pace yourself during sex slow down and back off for a little bit when you feel yourself coming, and of course, kegel. This should have you lasting for hours in no time.

Fourplay, fourplay, and more fourplay.
I would guess that 5 minutes is pretty normal for a sex-newbie. At 4 minutes, 30 seconds you can take her over to the dresser, change positions, and get back to it. A little brake like that may well reset you 5 minute timer back to zero. If it works the worst that will happen is she wonders why you lead her all over the house during sex. If you two are monogymous and have both been tested, then oral sex is your friend. Go from oral to penetration, when when you are close to poping your cork switch back to using your mouth on her. Oddly enough very few women will complain that you have stopped humping under these conditions. You can switch back and forth and go a looong time. Oh, did I mention fourplay, fourplay, and more fourplay?

Two quick thoughts if you are new to sex:

Lasting five minutes is more than enought time for you to be able to experiment and try out different things. That and a desire to learn and improve pretty much means you can train your self to last as long as you want.

Oral sex: get good at it.

Yeah, it is a newbie thing, and 5 minutes is probably not too bad actually. If you want to progress, try to get over the feeling of “Oh My God, I am actually having SEX!”. It will pass on its own in time. Doesn’t sound to me like you have a premature ejaculation problem.

Iamaru is dead on with regard to foreplay (except for the spelling!), and the oral sex. If you want to keep her happy, move south and use your mouth. If you give her a good orgasm or two before you mount up, or in between your 4 minute 30 second sessions, you will not get any complaints and it will help you develop confidence.

I knew a guy once who lasted a minute and all the girls called him “the minute man” and his girlfriend was always called “the minute maid” and it was kinda sad but now that I think about it he go layed alot. Strange…

Believe yourself .It is important.you will have a good sexual pleasure.Good luck

Hmm, I don’t know, but it seems when I kegel during masturbation, it’s just heightens the pleasure and I come even quicker, I don’t really see how that’s helping? I can do the whole multiple. Orgasm thing, but sometimes when the orgasm is really powerful I can’t really suppress it. I dunno, but any insight would be great, thanks.