I’m sorry I brought up the fat pad issue.
I do understand it is a very tough spot to just shed, and Acid Jazz is correct, it is often genetic. I hear there are those trans-dermal things that help to target fat burning, but…it’s awfully near the prize possession, so probably not a good idea.
If you’re new to this Mr. Jazz the newbie routine is a fine way to go. Most folks can expect anywhere from .5” to 1” of gains (I’m talking length here) from the newbie routine alone. Beyond that… well, there’s this whole site here filled with all sorts of variations on this theme.
Stretching, using extenders, or hanging are the three preferred methods of getting length. Hanging and ADS is fairly tried and true. Stick with the newbie routine for three months and while you do, read all you can.
You’re obviously a smart dude. You’ll find your way. :)
house_md, no worries. Guys tend to be competitive. Those that are into sports, maybe a little more so. Testosterone, man, what can we do?
The older you get the more you are able to put the various ways you ‘compete’ into perspective - and learn to choose your battles.
Personally, I’d bet that your 5.75” of girth packs just the right wallop all on its own, as is; big dick. If you want more, that’s up to you of course, but I’d think you would spend your time more wisely by learning a variety of sexual techniques that will make you a versatile and amazing lover. You have a very good size right this very minute.
I’m just saying. (:
Not to say that there isn’t some fun to be had by gaining, but it’s a lot of work and takes time - serious time. Especially for girth. Be prepared.
I do think the porn thing contributes to many guys feelings that they don’t have enough. Remember this, fish-eye lenses and camera angles contribute mightily to objects in view appearing bigger, and rounder than they would in real life.
The average guy in porn is about 7” or so - in other words: large. True, there are many who are bigger, and a few honest to goodness monsters. But even most of them aren’t so “monster” as all that. The difference between 7” and 8” is only an inch - we’re not talking big differences here. Film yourself with such a camera from a business end viewpoint and you may be surprised at what you see.
Also, when viewing porn, bear this in mind: the average woman’s hand measured across the knuckles is typically a little less than 3” and many of the petite women in porn have smaller hands. Makes watching blow-job footage a little more enlightening and a little less disheartening.
See if I’m not right about this.
As to why any girl says this or that. Who knows? They could believe what they’re saying and be mistaken, or they could be pressing a button just to maintain control in the relationship. Or she could just be trying to impress you that she’s all worldly and experienced and in charge of her own sexuality. Or some combination of the above. Who knows?
Interesting that the ex was so huge, and yet…she’s with you, though, isn’t it? :leftie:
If nothing else, it’s a tacit admission that size isn’t all that.