I'm freaked out now! (Premature Ejac from PE??)
I have been doing PE for about 5 weeks now. My routine consists of manual stretched, jelqs and kegels.
A while ago I talked to my ex and we decided to get back together for some sex, as we had both gone without getting any for a long period of time, and our sex had always been amazing. I have always been able to last a long time before cumming. Most of the time I have to “force” myself to ejaculate (by holding my breath and heavy kegeling). This time however, which was the first time since I started PE, I came inside her after about 3 minutes! We were both a bit shocked at first since this had never happened before. She was all calm about it after a while, but I went into panicmode. My first thought was: “could this be a result of PE?”. Then I thought about the fact that I had masturbated a lot without allowing myself to ejaculate lately. I have cut down on ejaculations by masturbation from once a day to 2-3 times a week, but I can’t seem to keep myself from masturbating. So I just do it until I’m almost at my climax, and then stop.
We didn’t talkt about it at all. A few days later we met up again. I actually managed to keep myself from thinking about it this time, yet it happened again. This time even earlier. She was giving me head, and after a few strokes I came. This time I was devastated! I seriously had to struggle to keep myself from bursting out in tears in the bathroom afterwards. Once again, she was really nice about it. She said that it was probably just a temporary thing, and that we could just watch a movie and try again if I wanted. After the movie I was actually rock hard, so she went down on me again. Everything was going alright, even if the only thing in my mind was “please don’t cum, please don’t cum”. I entered her and it felt great. Did the missionary for a short while. Then went to doggystyle. I was pumping really hard and managed to give her an orgasm. Shortly after though I felt it again. I was about to cum. I tried to stop, but it was too late. She was satisfied with cumming and all, but this was nothing compared to our sex life in the past. I mean, we could go on for hours nonstop. I am so damn freaked out right now, that this post is probably full of grammatical errors, but I just had to get this off my chest and see if anyone has any thoughts about this. The way I see it, it has to be the result of one of these factors:
1.) Less masturbation
2.) Masturbation without ejaculation
Any comments are appreciated!